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Jun 21, 2022 17:51
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Do you ever show the dating club’s website to male friends or acquaintances?
Of course, I understand that doing the opposite is prohibited, but...
Also, if you happened to find out that a woman you know (such as an acquaintance’s or friend’s girlfriend or wife) was registered with the club, would you tell her?
My current papa (a male supporter) is someone I originally met through a dating club. He says he has already left the club, but
he originally joined through an acquaintance’s introduction, so
I’m worried that it might somehow get back to them through that acquaintance or something.
8 answers
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t show it, but can you really trust someone who does?
By the way, there’s an easy way to identify men who show it.
Just ask them, “What’s my class?”
If they respond with something like, “You’re platinum,” be careful—they’re the kind of men who can casually violate the rules.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’ve had more than ten regulars say things like:
“Show me—I want to know how I come across.”
“I went for a reshoot, and I’m worried about how the photos turned out. Could you show them to me?”
Of course, I never show them because it violates the rules.
As for the different classes, it seems the scouts are the ones explaining them.
Other
It’s suspicious to begin with that this papa has already left the service(笑)
How do you interact with him? I think saying something unnecessary like, “You’re the only one!” is a bad move. It’s probably better to say, “I may be seeing other people, but I’d like to keep meeting you,” and the key is finding a smooth way to communicate that.
From my own experience, once someone clearly lies to me, I can’t trust them anymore. Even if she was incredibly sexy and the sex was unbelievably amazing, I got tired of it after a year and said goodbye. On the other hand, I tend to stay involved longer with women who may have a slightly cunning side and might be seeing others, but genuinely enjoy spending time with me.
Oh, and to answer your question: I don’t show it to anyone else. I don’t have friends like that, and I have no intention of making any.
Taro
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m the discreet type, so I’ve never shown it to anyone.
Come to think of it, I’ve never seen one from any women I know, either.
Other
Some people do share women’s profiles, so if you’re concerned about being recognized, I think you should blur your face. If you’re in the Kanto area, why not go to an interview at a salon?
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Personally, I wouldn’t do that, but your acquaintance may be the kind of person who shows or teaches those things.
I don’t think asking what we do would be much help.
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Other
I’m worried they’ll find out, and the only thing I can think of doing—if there’s any way to handle this—is to give my papa (a male supporter) the names of those acquaintances and ask the club staff to hide my profile from them so they won’t notice.
Other
I don’t show or tell anyone, but I’m sure some people do, so I don’t think there’s much point in asking here.