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Jun 16, 2022 11:08
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This is my first time posting a question.
I registered earlier this month and am a female member who hasn’t received an offer yet.
Recently, a feature was added that lets us see which men have added us to their favorites. When I checked, it seemed that around 20 men had favorited me, but I haven’t received an offer from any of them…
Does being added to someone’s favorites not necessarily lead to an offer?
Or are they waiting for the right timing, or planning to compare me with other girls before deciding?
I’d love to hear what papa supporters are thinking.
8 answers
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
If someone catches my eye even a little, I add her to my favorites and review them carefully whenever I have time.
New female members join every day, so I always have over 100 in there.
Among my favorites, there are a few I’m keeping an eye on. Once I part ways with my current monthly arrangement, I’m thinking of making an offer. I do have priorities.
👨 Male
Universe member
I have the same dating style as Shun-kashū-tō.
Since I’m an old man, I save profiles of women who fit my ideal type as favorites, just in case I get turned down. If I am, I consider making offers based on my favorites.
Sorry for sharing just one personal example, but there’s an age gap of over 40 years between us. Yet once we actually started seeing each other, I thought, “Wow! She hasn’t turned me down!” And it’s just kept going...
We’ve become even closer than we were at the beginning. After about three years, she started telling me I used to be handsome, so I started believing it too...
It doesn’t look like it’ll end anytime soon.
Other
Maybe they check feedback and star ratings from other men before deciding whether to make an offer? ヾ(⌒(_*・ω・)_
I’m guessing they’d rather not waste their time than worry about the offer fee…? ( ˙꒳˙ )???
Other
I add people I like to my favorites, but when I’m satisfied with the person I’m currently seeing, I don’t make them an offer.
I might reach out if we stop seeing each other or if I end up having more free time. For reference, I usually have between one and ten people in my favorites. I occasionally review the list and remove someone if I decide they may not be the right fit after all. As of today, there are five people on it.
I’ve never received a “You seem wonderful” message from anyone I had in my favorites, so I might be happy if someone sent one with a comment.
いっつ・みぃ
Male
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Other
I add every woman who has ever sent me a “You’re lovely” to my favorites.
Of course, I can’t make an offer to everyone, but I want to be able to say, “Thanks for the ‘You’re lovely’!” if our paths happen to cross sometime in the future.
It’s fine if she’s forgotten about it, but if she remembers, I feel like it would be rude if I didn’t.
Although I sometimes think, “If you care that much, just make her an offer!” Haha.
It’s Me
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I add women I think, “She seems great—I might make her an offer,” to my favorites so I don’t forget about them.
I save them so I can look back at their profiles later, but since I haven’t actually made an offer to anyone from that list in over a year, I now have more than 100 favorites.
Even though it’s a dating club, I’ve been pleasantly surprised by the kinds of connections you can make there. These days, I’m enjoying the relationships themselves rather than making offers, and I may just end up never making an offer at all.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I add women I’m interested in to my favorites.
In most cases, if I’m interested in someone, I’ll make her an offer. If I’m interested but don’t make an offer, it’s usually because I’m making offers in order of strongest interest and haven’t gotten to her yet, I forgot about her in the meantime, the distance makes things difficult, or there’s something concerning in her profile.
P.S. Another possibility is that a staff member recommended her, so I added her to my favorites for the time being.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Once I add a woman to my favorites, I make an offer to over 90% of them.
The only reason I haven’t made an offer is that I’m waiting for the right timing. I always have more than ten monthly arrangements, so I’ll sometimes make an offer after ending things with one of them.
On the other hand, I never make an offer to someone I haven’t added to my favorites.