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Jun 5, 2022 18:37
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迷わない70代
Male
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パパ活歴11年目、回答者歴8年目の関西在住者。パパ活終活中（笑）
Age: 70 or older
👨 Male
Former Universe member
I also feel like it’s taking me quite a while, so I tell them, “I might not climax, but I’m at that age, so please don’t worry about it.”
That said, some women actually prefer it to take longer because it feels good for longer. They’re women with plenty of life experience, including childbirth, and we’ve developed good relationships.
Other
Having to keep changing positions and taking breaks before I can get there is nothing but painful.
It doesn’t make for a good time for either of us.
Akari
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I rarely climax either.
I naturally get tired while moving, so I usually stop partway through.
As long as he takes care of his hygiene and odor, and the woman can still feel pleasure properly, I don’t think taking a long time to finish is much of a problem.
Other
If she genuinely enjoys having sex with you and you’re in a loving relationship, I think it’s fine for it to last longer (of course, it won’t feel good if you can’t stay hard). But if you’ve only met a few times through a dating club and barely know each other, shorter is definitely better.
Sex that’s only about the man insisting, “I absolutely have to climax,” is torture for a woman. Having a man she barely knows rub her sensitive areas for a long time is nothing but painful…
So I think it’s kinder to say upfront, “I have trouble climaxing,” then reassure her, “I’m satisfied even if I don’t,” and keep things short.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I usually take a while to finish, but when I’m ready to climax, I can get there with a little effort—so I guess I’ve got a dutiful son.
Update: Aren’t you all taking too much medication?
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I think it depends on the person.
You should look for a woman who’s okay with that—or who actually prefers men like you.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Whether she orgasms or not, I stop penetration after 10 minutes. Women are just reluctantly putting up with it because they don’t like the pain.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Since we’re around the same age, it’s common for us to find it harder to climax the way we want when things go on for a long time.
So, with women who enjoy taking their time, I try not to worry too much about that and simply enjoy the experience. Being able to enjoy it for that long can feel really good in its own way. In terms of time, I suppose it’s like an endurance run—a 10K.
On the other hand, when it comes to the short, refreshing, quick-finish type:
Recently, when I started pleasuring one of my favorite girls and counted the seconds until she climaxed, it took less than 60 seconds.
From there, she kept climaxing in continuous waves of contractions…
When the excitement builds that much, it feels amazing for me too. I’m ready at any moment, and before long we’re both practically finishing on the spot. Even for an old man like me, we come together and I soon reach the end and am completely spent.
Like a 100-meter sprint, it’s intense, but over in no time.
Even among women who climax from clitoral stimulation, it’s quite rare to find someone whose whole body trembles with each climax, so this kind of compatibility is pretty special.
As for the woman’s perspective:
Women tend to prefer things to be quick. Just as a man is happy when a woman climaxes, a woman also feels happy and reassured when she finishes inside him, knowing that he was satisfied. The sooner, the better. Taking too long while forcing yourself to climax leaves the worst impression.
As a way of showing a woman that you’re satisfied, I think it’s important to learn how to finish inside her.
It’s also important not to climax anywhere other than inside a woman. If you get used to stronger stimulation, you may find it difficult to climax inside her.
Other
Teramoto from the Customer Success Department at Universe Club here.
I’ve struggled with the same issue myself, and I’ve been told things like, “My lower back hurts…” and “It’s starting to get dry, and it hurts…” So regardless of what a woman prefers, it definitely doesn’t hurt to be prepared with lotion or something similar.
I’m sorry this answer is coming from a male staff member rather than a woman, but I hope it’s at least somewhat helpful.
Other
If he’s genuinely well-endowed, stays hard, and takes a long time to finish, I’d be more than happy—but I think most women, including those in ordinary dating clubs, would find it very unpopular.
You may need to find some middle ground: either call it a night at some point or offer a higher allowance so she’ll put up with it. Try asking the women you’re seeing.
Marika