Tips Jun 3, 2022 13:08

I’m the person who asked the previous question. Thank you for your valuable opinions. I’ve been doing this for five years. In the past, I was even with someone for two years. Looking back, I can see that I sometimes gave a lot of gifts without increasing her allowance, or contacted her too often and made her dislike me. As for sex, to be honest, I’m not bad at it—I can satisfy my partners, and their reactions are genuine, not an act. I used to be able to do even more unconventional things, but that’s become difficult recently. In short, I’ve realized that I was viewing these relationships based on my own standards. The reason that woman is in a dating club is the key to everything. If I want to continue seeing her, I need to be special to her—whether through her allowance, the enjoyment I provide, or sex. I still have a lot to learn.

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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Honestly, I think making it to two years would already be quite an achievement. Your 20s are intense, and so many things and life events happen that relationships tend to end more quickly. I believe adapting to your partner is important, but if you adapt too much, you’ll stop enjoying yourself. It’s all about finding the right balance. Once things end, you can look for your next partner—that’s one of the advantages of this club. So I don’t think there’s any need to force a relationship to last.
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It seems like your favorite women sometimes get snapped up by generous (well-paying) papas, too (>_<) Dating clubs can be difficult for both men and women. P.S. How about becoming a Platinum or Black member and asking the staff what kind of feedback they’ve been getting about you? ( ˙꒳​˙ )???
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
It doesn’t have to be anything special. As long as, in her mind, she can stay on the comfortable side of the line while seeing you, that’s all that matters. When you say, “I used to be able to do even more unconventional things, but it’s been difficult lately,” it somehow comes across that you’re probably a self-centered person. Keep working on yourself.
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