Hello, I’m a college student considering registering with a dating club.
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I need money for my future goals, but since I live with my family, I’m worried they would notice if I worked in the nightlife industry. That’s how I ended up considering a dating club.
The reason I’m hesitant to register is my appearance.
It’s not that I lack confidence—I’m realistically around average to slightly above average, probably about fourth or fifth best-looking in my class—so I’m worried I won’t pass the screening, or that even if I’m accepted, I won’t receive any offers.
My height minus my weight is around 110, and I’m already taking good care of my appearance, so I don’t expect I can improve it dramatically.
Are there actually women with an appearance like mine registered at these clubs?
And would men consider making an offer to someone like me?
I fully understand that appearance isn’t the only thing that matters, but since photos are posted, I feel they have a major impact on whether someone makes contact, which is why I wanted to ask.
I’d also appreciate it if any women could recommend ways to earn money besides registering with a dating club.
Joining Universe will help you improve your confidence and femininity, so why not start by talking things over at the interview? (*^^*)
There probably aren’t many members in their teens, and since you seem like a responsible person, I think you’ll receive plenty of offers♪
I’m not exactly high-spec, but I’ve lost quite a bit of weight since joining. I’m working hard on various other things too—not just losing weight.
If you have a positive attitude, the staff should recognize it. ✧*｡٩(ˊᗜˋ*)و✧*｡
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Looks matter. In other words, when it comes to getting offers, appearance is pretty much all that matters. The staff’s introduction comments have hardly ever been helpful to me. Most of the staff are young, and the women are often nervous or wary, or trying desperately to sell themselves. I usually just skim the comments, but I end up reading them anyway, which is why I often make mistakes（笑）
I’d consider someone with height minus weight equaling 110 to be in the curvy category. So at 160 cm, that would mean 50 kg, right? I’d call that curvy. If she had an F cup, around 47 kg would be fine, and if she had a good figure with a C cup, maybe around 43 kg. For someone shorter—for example, 153 cm—subtracting 110 gives 43 kg. Yeah, if she had a large bust, that could work. But with a B cup, wouldn’t it be around 38 kg?
I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with the curvy category. It’s not the high-end category, but plenty of people like that body type. To use a restaurant analogy, it’s not Joël Robuchon—it’s more like a place that costs around ¥10,000–¥15,000 per person.
According to President Kida’s book, the ratio of female to male members is apparently 2:1, so this is a good opportunity. The usual ratio at dating clubs is apparently 1:3 to 1:5. At your level, unless you’re Type A, I imagine you’d receive quite a few offers. At Universe Club, the allowance is negotiated individually, so if you receive multiple offers, market forces work in your favor and you can choose the best terms. I don’t think it’s a bad option.
Taro
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Since your parents are paying your university tuition, I think it depends on how much money you need for your future goals, whether it’s something your parents can’t pay for, or whether you’re simply hesitant to ask because of your age.
I also wonder whether your parents would ask, “Where did you get that much money?” when you actually used it.
So I think you’d have more financial leeway if you continued working a proper part-time job while also having a papa (a male supporter) whose support wouldn’t change your lifestyle.
At a dating club, I think even an ordinary girl could receive offers if she dressed cute and made it feel like a date. However, most men are looking for an adult relationship (intimate), so if you want to receive an allowance for dinner only (no intimacy), you’ll need exceptional looks and communication skills.
If you’re talking about your plans after graduating from university, you’re still in your teens, and I think you could save money just by working a regular part-time job—especially since you live with your parents.
Marika
This may be beside the point, but numbers like “height minus weight equals 110 or 120” are completely unreliable. What matters is your visible proportions. The same number can look completely different depending on your height and body-fat percentage.
I could go on about this, but there’s no need to take everything men say at face value.
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> Looks-wise, I’d rank around fourth or fifth in my class.
I don’t know how many students were in your class, but assuming there were 40 students and 20 of them were women, being around fourth or fifth out of 20 should be more than enough to pass the interview.
Generally speaking, someone ranked around the top ten out of 20 would pass without any problems. If you’re around 11th to 15th, I think it would come down to your impression when you meet them.
If you’re ranked 16th to 20th, the chances of passing would drop considerably. Even then, though, you could still pass if you make a good impression in person or have some appealing feature—such as graduating from the University of Tokyo, being a flight attendant, having a bust size of G-cup or larger, or anything else that would make a man want to make an offer.
> My height minus my weight is about 110.
A lot of men do prefer slim women, so having a figure of around 120 might increase your chances of receiving an offer. But that doesn’t mean you won’t get any offers with a figure of 110. If you have one of the appealing traits mentioned above, you could still receive offers even with a figure of 100.
Either way, you won’t know whether you’ll receive offers until you actually register. Sometimes people who think they aren’t good enough end up getting lots of offers.
With Universe, there are also videos, so some men may become interested because of your mannerisms or the way you speak.
In the end, it comes down to whether you have traits that make men want to make an offer. And I don’t think you can know what those traits are until you actually register.
I think you should go ahead and try the interview.
> Numbers like 110 or 120 for height minus weight aren’t reliable at all.
I didn’t know that. I guess I tend to judge whether someone is slim, average, or heavier based on their height and weight.
I’ll keep that in mind from now on.
Since those are self-reported figures anyway, the numbers themselves are meaningless if someone fudges their weight.
Still, when men say they prefer slim women, I find myself relying on those numbers, so I feel like they probably do affect whether someone receives an offer.
As for how a man feels after meeting you, your overall proportions are important.
And when thinking about the period before meeting, it seems better to wear clothes that give people an idea of your figure.
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You may be able to find someone through a papa-katsu app, but I also recommend interviewing and registering with Universe Club.
You’ll have to wait until you receive an offer, but you seem young, and I think you have a better figure than I do.
Male members have all kinds of preferences, so why not give it a try? It could be a valuable experience.
I hope you’re able to save the amount you’re aiming for (╹◡╹)
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This is Sakamoto from the staff.
Thank you for your question.
“Are there actually women with the kind of appearance described above among your registered members?”
→ Yes, there are many.
If someone takes particular care with their appearance, it’s even less likely that they would fail the screening based on their looks.
Moreover, she may be someone who one particular member considers his number one.
Being supported by a papa (a male supporter) is certainly not easy, but I believe it could open up possibilities for the future you envision.
We sincerely look forward to receiving your application.
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Almost everyone gets through—at least those around the middle of the class or slightly toward the back. In other words, this isn’t a contest; the staff want to offer every promising encounter they can, so basically any woman who comes in for an interview will pass. There shouldn’t be anyone they can say has no chance of receiving an offer…
That said, if you’re a teenager, making a bad impression on the staff could mean they won’t recommend you, and they may even hesitate to list your profile.
Go to the interview alone.
As for your weight, if possible, try to get it close to your height minus 115.
Then just go to the interview looking and acting as you normally do.
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As everyone has said, I think you’ll pass the screening.
Based on your question, it doesn’t sound like offers will come flooding in, but depending on how the interview goes, you may be able to create a situation where you do receive offers. So take everyone’s advice into account and do your best.
As for apps, the men’s financial profiles are definitely lower, but you’re more likely to find a match there.
There are strange people on both apps and dating clubs, so ultimately, you’ll need to protect yourself.
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If you mean she’s about fourth or fifth in her class in terms of looks, there are probably quite a few women registered.
Personally, looks aren’t that important to me, and I don’t even check their weight, so I can’t say for sure.
Whether I’d make her an offer depends on whether I’m interested in her personality. That said, I wouldn’t make an offer to anyone in their teens, so personally, I probably wouldn’t make her an offer.
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You’ll probably be accepted with a Gold membership or so.
Just don’t get the wrong idea—it’s different from a dating app where no allowance is involved. On a regular dating app, women can receive 100 offers without doing anything.
But if you’re not friendly or don’t have anything distinctive about you, and you just sit back and let the conversation happen, you’ll end up being one of the two out of every three women who receive no offers at all.
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If you’re worried about your photos, why not try going to an interview at SALON?
I’m by no means a stunning beauty, and I don’t have a perfect hourglass figure either. Even so, I’m truly grateful that SALON allowed me to register.
I went in fully prepared to give up papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) if I couldn’t register with SALON, because I just couldn’t bring myself to show my face publicly.
That said, it seems Universe Club also allows things like blurring photos, so I think it would be a good idea to attend an interview and talk with the staff.
P.S.
SALON doesn’t accept people in their teens! So you’ll have to wait until you’re over 20—or try Universe Club instead.
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Even if you’re not exceptionally attractive, I think you’ll still receive offers if you’re serious and refined.
If going out at night is out of the question, then working in nightlife venues isn’t an option. Maybe a short-term job at an Amazon warehouse? They pay around ¥1,800 an hour.
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If what you’ve written is accurate, I think you should pass the screening easily in terms of looks.
As for whether you receive offers, unless you’re exceptionally attractive, a lot depends on how the staff describe your demeanor during the interview.
At a minimum, be careful to arrive on time, avoid rescheduling the interview, dress appropriately for a date, don’t play with your phone while waiting, and watch how you speak—don’t be overly casual.
These are the basics you should keep in mind.
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