I’m a man in my 50s and a former member of Universe Club.

Once I climax, my sensitivity drops a little if there’s a short break before the next time… But if we keep going after I climax, I can continue climaxing. I may even squirt and cry out a little (汗) I enjoy climaxing multiple times. Just as some women climax internally while others do so externally, everyone is different. So I think finding someone with truly good physical chemistry can be quite difficult. Even if you think someone can be “trained,” it may not work out that way. If you continue meeting new women, I’m sure you’ll eventually find someone who’s a good match for you. Good luck!

This may not really answer the question, but I feel like getting someone to climax from clitoral stimulation multiple times is relatively easy—pretty much anyone can do it. But when I hear someone claim they made a woman climax vaginally over and over, I have to wonder if it’s really true. Even I’m extremely well-trained and have more stamina than most college students, yet trying to make someone climax vaginally multiple times leaves me drenched in sweat and gasping for breath. And since you have to stay erect the entire time, you need serious endurance too—so for men in their 40s or older, wouldn’t it be basically impossible? Marika’s papa (male supporter) is a monster... I guess there’s always someone better. I need to train harder!

This is very helpful. I’ll keep working to improve. This isn’t an answer, just my thoughts.

I think it really depends on the woman. That said, quite a few women prefer not to have clitoral stimulation continue after they’ve orgasmed once. In most cases, it’s because it starts to feel painful.

I’m the same as Marika—if my clit is stimulated repeatedly, it starts to hurt and gets overwhelming, but I can enjoy oral and penetration over and over. It feels like the pleasure keeps building (lol). If your partner enjoys it too, try it gently while checking to make sure it isn’t painful♪

> Even with more experience, is it not possible to climax two or three times during intense sex? Experience doesn’t necessarily change anything—it really depends on the individual. After climaxing once, many women will say things like, “I came,” “I can’t,” “stop,” or “don’t touch me,” and try to stop things. But rather than stopping there, if you experiment with ways to continue gently, smoothly, and softly, some women may go on to climax repeatedly, almost as if they’re in a dream. For a man, witnessing that is an incredibly exhilarating moment. If anything, I feel younger women are more likely to respond differently because they haven’t developed the fixed idea that “once I’ve come, I can’t go any further.” —Paper Airplane Since you’re around my age, I’ll answer from that perspective as well. Just as men feel satisfied when a woman climaxes and feels fulfilled, at our age it’s also important to let a woman see a man reach a satisfying climax. Unlike when we were younger, there are times when we honestly fail to finish, so whether she climaxes once or repeatedly, I feel that, from a papa-katsu perspective, men our age need to work toward finishing at just the right moment and increasing both partners’ satisfaction. > Marika, > Additional note: > When I say “I don’t even want to be touched,” it’s not because my clitoris hurts. It’s more that my entire body is so sensitive that I can’t tolerate being touched anywhere. Exactly. When a woman said that after climaxing intensely, I would generally stop touching her there—at least until recently. Some women won’t let you touch them at all, but the more intensely a woman climaxes—the easier it is to tell when she reaches her peak—the more I’ve recently discovered that starting very gentle, almost minimal cunnilingus from that point can lead to an even deeper experience. It made me realize how rigidly fixed my assumptions had been for decades, and I was amazed by something that felt almost mystical. From a man’s perspective, a woman’s body is enviably full of variety and change. Marika, do you then move on to cunnilingus or penetration? I’d be very interested to know how things develop from there.

As Marika says, it seems to vary from person to person, and may also depend on how they climax. Mac > Kazu sometimes writes, “I always make her climax once through cunnilingus first,” and I’ve actually always wondered how women respond afterward. It differs from woman to woman. Some women climax not just once, but more than 30 times from cunnilingus. When I say “more than 30 times,” I mean that by around the 30th time, I get tired of keeping count. Sometimes I think I should use a tally counter. On the other hand, some women become too sensitive after climaxing once and say it tickles, so I shouldn’t touch them anymore. In either case, since the woman has already climaxed, I’m able to focus on my own release and take things at my own pace. As for which type of woman I continue seeing, I tend to enjoy being with women who respond well and climax repeatedly—there’s more satisfaction in giving them oral—so those relationships are more likely to continue. I feel it might be difficult for a woman who says, “Once is enough,” to become someone who wants unlimited encores. That said, with more experience, and by learning what leads to what, you might discover a way for her to climax repeatedly. Of course, you might not.

I’m not sure, but after an intense clitoral orgasm, I become so sensitive that I don’t even want to be touched and don’t feel like continuing. When I orgasm from penetration, though, the pleasure just keeps going, and I feel like I can climax several times in a row. I know it’s different for everyone, but what do you think? Marika As an aside, I didn’t become able to orgasm repeatedly from penetration until after I turned 40. Before that, I had only ever climaxed from clitoral stimulation… Edit: When I say I don’t even want to be touched, it’s not because my clitoris hurts. It’s more that my whole body is so sensitive that I can’t stand being touched anywhere.