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Apr 12, 2022 13:51
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Is my body rejecting papas themselves?
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Do you actually insert your own fingers right before things happen to check how wet you are?
If you don’t, then the amount of wetness is only speculation, and I feel the actual difference probably isn’t that significant.
Even if you do check, I think the amount you perceive yourself and the amount your partner perceives may be different.
That said, even if it has nothing to do with the actual amount of wetness, if that’s how you feel, it may indicate some kind of emotional resistance.
If you feel disgusted, it’s not your body rejecting the person—it’s your mind. You don’t have to sleep with someone you find unpleasant, so I think you should stop doing that.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t think papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is right for you.
You should consider other ways to make money.
Other
You’re probably pushing yourself too hard.
You can’t really get wet unless you’re feeling aroused, right…?
It’s the same for men, too—those who are really turned on often start leaking something from the very beginning.
👨 Male
Universe member
> Does being unable to get wet with someone really mean your body is rejecting them?
That’s a very insightful observation. Yes, that’s essentially what it means.
Other
I think you’re pushing yourself too hard. If you need the money badly enough to keep forcing yourself through it, then you may have no choice but to continue. But if you find yourself thinking, “Maybe I don’t need to go that far,” then it’s probably time to stop.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Exactly. It’s the same for men, too. Some get aroused just by having their partner beside them, without even being touched.
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彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Since your brain is what controls your bodily functions, I think it’s because you—and your brain—feel that way and have convinced yourself of it.
If cunnilingus gets you wet, that’s a good thing. Why not have him do it a lot?
Other
Hmm, I’m not sure. I get wet and climax pretty easily, so it’s hard for me to say…
If you don’t get wet with anyone except an attractive guy, regardless of whether you’re feeling unwell or around your period, then maybe it simply means you’re not really into him. (>_<)
Other
That may be the case.
I’m sure you have your reasons for doing this, but your body knows best, so please don’t push yourself too hard.
Other
I’ve never been intimate with someone I disliked, and I tend to get pretty wet naturally, so I’m not sure… Maybe your body is rejecting them, or it could just depend on how you’re feeling that day?!
Since part of you is thinking, “I really don’t want this,” that’s probably why.
If someone makes you feel uncomfortable, I think you simply shouldn’t be intimate with them.