Tips Mar 23, 2022 09:09

What does it mean when someone says, “Behave like a mistress, okay?”

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I’ve thought about it, but what does being “mistress-like” even mean? Men from the older generation can be so unpleasant.
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I agree with what Rin is saying, but from the man’s perspective, I believe providing enough financial support that the woman will never have to worry about money again is the basic premise of being a mistress. Since I doubt the person asking is receiving anywhere near that much, I don’t think this qualifies as a mistress relationship. So I think it’s best to just brush it off.
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Since we don’t know what kind of mistress relationship he’s looking for, I think it would be best to ask him directly. To me, being a true mistress means devoting yourself to that one person and doing your best for him. You would never tell anyone about the relationship or make unreasonable demands, though you could be yourself when the two of you are alone. In return, you’d receive enough allowance to never have to worry about money for the rest of your life. But this is a dating club, not a mistress club, so maybe it’s meant to be a more relaxed arrangement that both people can enjoy?
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Do you mean not getting involved in a man’s private life? I think what people call a mistress varies from person to person, so it might be best to ask your papa (a male supporter) what he thinks! (*^^*)
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
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I don’t think “mistress” is a word men should be using. So just stick your tongue out at him in your head and think, “Nyah nyah, serves you right.” A papa’s skill lies in treating her as an equal partner, so she doesn’t feel even the slightest bit inferior. It’s the same at men’s esthetic salons. Nothing “more” will ever happen with some idiot old guy who acts like, “I’m the customer!” Being a papa means giving as generous (well-paying) an allowance as possible while also providing the very best hospitality.
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カズ
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I don’t think that means they have a bad personality; it simply means you haven’t established the basic communication needed to make sure you’re using the same definitions. Since the meaning of words can vary slightly from person to person, I think it’s best to ask the person who made the comment directly.
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