Tips Mar 16, 2022 10:54

I’m only seeing one man, but I already want to end things with him. In a situation like this, should I break it off right away? Or would you continue for the money, emotionally detached, until you find someone else you can meet steadily and consistently?

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I’m Unno, a staff member. As the other respondents have said, I think it’s best to follow your own feelings. If you strongly feel that you want to end things, then in my opinion, you should act accordingly! m(__)m
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I think you probably want to break things off for a reason. If it’s something like him chewing with his mouth open—an issue you might be able to resolve by subtly bringing it up—then it may be worth trying what you can. But if he pressures you to go without protection, or you’re simply not comfortable with him on a gut level, I’d end things even if there weren’t any other men around. Just consider him someone who was never there and wait for the next offer. It’s more enjoyable when you don’t push yourself ✩.*˚
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You’re not cut out for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so you should try something else.
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It’s definitely better not to push yourself.
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If you need the money, put up with it; if not, I think it’s fine to end things right away.
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You just have to weigh the money against how much you’re willing to put up with.
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I think it depends on what you want.
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I think the question is whether you’re doing this for the money or not. If you can afford to, it should be okay to say goodbye—but I think it really depends on how much money you need. Personally, I don’t think this is something you should force yourself to do by shutting off your feelings.
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It depends on the questioner’s budget, doesn’t it?
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It’s entirely up to you. What matters is what you want. Marika
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