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Mar 15, 2022 23:26
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
As I’ve written in my columns, even if a woman has a history of canceling at the last minute, I used to make offers based on looks when I first joined—and Fuu learned that lesson the hard way.
Now I read profiles carefully and choose women who seem unlikely to cancel, with no history of last-minute cancellations.
I go for ordinary office workers aged 23 or older.
Other
I’ve never made an offer to someone who has a habit of canceling at the last minute.
I might if she were extremely my type, but generally speaking, I probably wouldn’t.
Other
Wait, are there really zero-star ratings?
If I were a man, I wouldn’t make an offer the moment I saw someone’s rating had dropped. I wouldn’t want to deal with the unpleasantness.
I have to question someone’s character if they have a habit of canceling at the last minute, so why did you make the offer in the first place?
Also, since this causes trouble for other men, please give her the lowest rating and send the staff a quick LINE message saying she canceled at the last minute. Hopefully, there won’t be any more victims.
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
>I’m a little unsure about a woman on a dating club site who’s considered a powerhouse despite having zero stars because of last-minute cancellations. What do you think?
I don’t think there was ever a zero-star rating, though. Are you really a male member?
Normally, if a woman has only lost one star, some men will still take a chance on her. But if she’s lost two stars, I think most men would stop taking that chance.
Also, if you get a last-minute cancellation on the day of a club-arranged meeting, you could ask the staff member, “Would you like to have dinner together?” Since they probably feel bad about what happened, they might even come over. But having dinner with a staff member isn’t really much consolation, is it?
Still, if last-minute cancellations bother you, I think it’s better to make offers to women whose ratings haven’t dropped.
The kind of man who should make an offer to a woman with reduced ratings is probably someone with a strong enough mentality to say, “Last-minute cancellations are to be expected. I’ll just keep asking the club to arrange meetings.”
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’ve never made an offer to a woman whose club profile included comments like that. I have made an offer to a woman who had a habit of being late, though.
Curiosity was what ultimately made me decide to make the offer.