Tips Mar 12, 2022 20:32

Is it really possible to be genuinely lovey-dovey with your papas? I’ve been seeing five of them for over six months, and I’ve been in a monthly arrangement with one for almost a year.

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I use very affectionate emojis with all of them on LINE, tell them things like “I love you so much, ○○♡” repeatedly during intimate moments, and spend the entire time holding hands and relaxing together when we meet. We kiss when we meet and when we say goodbye, too. Even I think I’m really a professional, but I don’t actually like any of my papas at all. I don’t think you can easily tell whether a woman is genuinely lovey-dovey just from her attitude, so at what point would you think, “This woman and I are really in love”?
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If neither person has come to their senses, I don’t think it really matters whether it’s true or a lie. It’s all about supply and demand, so as long as both parties are happy with it, I think it’s perfectly fine. Besides, just because they’re boyfriend and girlfriend—or married—doesn’t mean we know they’re truly lovey-dovey.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
That seems fine for you, doesn’t it? You’re making him feel like you’re deeply in love with him, right? There probably aren’t many pros with that kind of hostess-style skill here. That’s your strategy, and it’s nice that you found a papa (a male supporter) who falls for it. None of Fuu’s monthly partners are pros on your level, so I wouldn’t call it “being deeply in love.” Maybe it’s more that you click, are considerate of each other, feel comfortable together, and don’t feel like either of you is forcing anything?
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Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
If someone says, “I love you so much♡” during sex, wouldn’t you naturally get carried away and think you’re truly in love? Isn’t that kind of simplicity in older men a little cute? I like that side of them, and I can’t help but find it adorable. In other words, don’t people who are easily deceived somehow seem cute? You may intend to deceive them, but for some reason, you start feeling attached. This happens to me quite often. It’s like, “Huh, you’ll fall for something this simple? But you look kind of happy, so I guess you’re cute.” In a way, doesn’t that make them trustworthy as people? There’s a certain comfort in getting the reaction you expected.
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My papa also seems to think we’re in love, since he told me, “We’re totally lovey-dovey, aren’t we?” I might look like a “pro” like the person who asked this question, but honestly, I’m not even sure what it means to love a papa in the first place. Of course, I love him very much as my papa (a male supporter), but when I think about his wife and children, I feel a pang of guilt. It’s not the kind of relationship where I can proudly say, “I’ll love you no matter what, as a man and a woman.” Also, I think it’s fine as long as you can make it feel real, even if it’s an act. If it’s a lie you’ll take to your grave, then I suppose you can’t really tell whether it’s a lie or not.
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I can usually tell when a professional woman is lying. They’ll send me messages that are obviously full of fake sweetness♡, get overly clingy, or flatter and praise me in an obviously forced way. Even during intimate moments, I can tell when she’s only pretending to enjoy it or isn’t being genuine. If you’ve ever been with a woman who truly meant it, you’d probably know the difference too. Whether she’s simply bad at lying or lies about everything becomes clear over time—from the things she says, her overall vibe, and the way she acts or speaks when her guard is down. I don’t trust people who are constantly lying.
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I don’t think someone like that is relevant to you, but… > “We use really lovey-dovey emojis on LINE, and I tell him ‘I love you so much♡’ over and over during sex. Even when we’re together, we spend the whole time holding hands and relaxing. We kiss when we meet and when we say goodbye.” That’s already completely professional, so there’s no genuine romance here… If you were actually close, you wouldn’t do things like that. I think he’s also treating—and enjoying—you as a professional. > “What makes you think this woman and I are actually in love?” Maybe your LINE messages would be curt, you wouldn’t say “I love you” during sex, you wouldn’t hold hands the whole time, and you wouldn’t kiss when meeting or saying goodbye… Everything might be the opposite… She’s not a hostess at a cabaret club, after all… Ah, I completely fell for the bait…
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Ah, sorry. We’re really lovey-dovey. Is that a problem? Marika Still, what a vulgar person—calling people things like “the one who does it” or “monthly.” If he looks down on you that much, you should just stay away from him.
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