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Mar 12, 2022 16:53
12 answers
Other
Surely you’re not telling someone about 20 years younger than you not to treat you like an old man, are you?
If that’s the case, you’re probably in your mid-40s, right? Don’t men around 20 look like kids to you? Women around 20 are kids too—both in appearance and maturity once they take off their makeup.
To someone that young, a person in their mid-40s is an old man. You’re old enough to be their father.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
We’re around the same age, but I’ve never felt like I was being treated as an “older guy.”
Other
Regardless of how they really feel, some girls won’t treat you like an old man—or will at least make you feel that way.
As other respondents have said in answers to similar questions, working out at the gym, getting hair removal, taking care of your skin, offering a higher allowance, and so on may lead some girls to treat you that way.
But expecting that without making any effort, just by handing over a small allowance, is asking for too much.
That said, it’s all about supply and demand, so you may still find someone whose expectations happen to match yours.
Other
You're just a younger kid.
Marika
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
No, let’s focus on female members in their 30s and 40s.
Other
I like older gentlemen, so “older gentleman” isn’t going to change.
(๑>◡<๑)
You don’t have to look youthful—just being yourself, with all the life experience you’ve gained, is perfectly fine ♪♪ I’ve even been in love with someone 16 years older than me, so I think you should just be yourself ♪
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
They may exist occasionally—not just here, but in society at large—but they’re extremely rare.
From the questioner’s perspective, how would a 60-year-old woman who’s about 20 years older appear?
When you were 20, how did a 40-year-old woman appear to you?
Wouldn’t your impression be fairly similar?
Other
I’m sure there are girls who won’t treat you like an old man. Try reaching out to women in their late twenties or older. From a college student’s perspective, as I’ve said many times, even a 30-year-old is an old man.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
No matter where you go, an older guy is still an older guy. Even if it’s Universe, you can’t turn back time.
Other
It might be difficult to tell someone more than 20 years younger than you, “Don’t treat me like some old guy.”
I think things are different when you make offers to women in their late 20s or older.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Some women feel that way, while others don’t.
Your late 40s are actually your prime dating years—by then, you’ve gained more experience with men and have everything going for you.
Joining a club would be a waste.
It’s not too late to start club activities once you reach your 50s and begin thinking more about your mortality.
Why not enjoy wandering freely instead?
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
With a pay-per-meeting allowance of 100,000 yen, he’ll treat you as if you’re 10 years younger; with 150,000 yen, you’ll be treated as 15 years younger.
If you’re 45, go for 150,000 yen per meeting—you’ll be treated like you’re 30♪