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Mar 12, 2022 12:26
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🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
There’s no general rule here.
Other
Generally speaking, if a monthly arrangement ends up providing less total allowance than a pay-per-meeting arrangement, the woman is likely to become dissatisfied. If it ends up being more, the man is likely to become dissatisfied.
Marika, a pay-per-meeting advocate
Other
In my experience, only one papa ended up paying less with a monthly arrangement. For most, it actually worked out to be more expensive. None of the papas chose a monthly arrangement because they wanted to save money.
I think monthly arrangements don’t usually come from a “bundle discount” mindset. They tend to develop more along the lines of, “I want to support this girl’s lifestyle—how much should I give her?” So it probably isn’t a good fit for someone focused on cost-effectiveness.
Other
Generally speaking, if you calculate the hourly rate, a monthly arrangement would probably work out lower than pay-per-meeting.
My impression is that people who do monthly arrangements pay a fairly substantial total amount each month. However, with a monthly arrangement, you never know how much of the woman’s time will actually be tied up or how many obligations will come with it, so I think the way you calculate the hourly rate depends on the individual situation.
So for me personally, until I’m earning enough that I don’t have to overthink all this, I plan to avoid monthly arrangements.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t think a monthly arrangement is necessarily cheaper. Depending on the pay-per-meeting calculation, the amount might stay the same—or even increase.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I agree with the general idea, but in my case, when I promote someone from pay-per-meeting to a monthly arrangement, I make the per-meeting equivalent higher than before.
For example, if she was receiving 120,000 yen per meeting, I might offer 300,000 yen per month and meet no more than twice a month.
I would never offer 300,000 yen per month for three adult relationship (intimate) meetings and effectively lower the per-meeting rate.
◎ Switching to a monthly arrangement = I really like you and will treat you well.
That’s what it means, so if I lowered the per-meeting equivalent, I couldn’t exactly say, “I really like you,” could I? That’s why I raise the per-meeting equivalent when switching to a monthly arrangement. It’s a very simple way of looking at it.