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Mar 12, 2022 01:51
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I understand that being intimate with someone you love can be emotionally fulfilling. But many people from these clubs become intimate from the very first meeting, or do so even when they don’t know whether they like the other person, right?
If you’re looking for physical pleasure, wouldn’t going to an adult entertainment venue be enough? What are male members looking for when they take things further through a dating club?
4 answers
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
A desire for romance, huh…
Now that you mention it, “a desire for romance” does seem like the best way to explain it.
People who only want to satisfy their sexual needs would probably go to sex services. That’s where they’d be most satisfied.
But some people aren’t satisfied with that alone, which I think is why they come to dating clubs.
That said, there are male members who are only after sex, too, so I feel like they’re looking in the wrong place.
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Even if it started out as sexual desire, after two years with three women, I’ve naturally grown attached to them.
I intend to watch over them for the rest of my life and see them become happy. If they’re ever in a difficult situation, I’ll help them financially.
Other
I only get intimate with women I’ve genuinely fallen for.
As Mac-san says, it satisfies both my sexual and romantic desires, so I feel emotionally fulfilled as well.
Why do I want sex? Because when I’ve fallen for someone and she seems to feel the same way about me, I naturally want to become intimate with her. So it’s not like just anyone will do.
Of course, in this kind of world, there’s always the possibility that she’s simply putting on a perfect act and I’m just being conceited. But I believe the women I’m seeing have genuinely developed feelings for me too. And for some of them, I’m currently the only person they have an adult relationship with, so I don’t think just anyone would do for them either.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Women at dating clubs don’t develop relationships with just anyone.
Likewise, men at dating clubs seem to be looking for women who don’t develop relationships with just anyone.