Tips Mar 11, 2022 23:33

I envy people who are in serious relationships with successful men their own age, with the same kind of financial dynamic as papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). I have to see old men just to receive an allowance. Why is there such a huge difference?

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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
There’s nothing to be gained from envying others. There will always be people better off than you, and people worse off. Just focus on doing your best with what you can do.
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That’s simply because you’re only that kind of woman, haha. Instead of wasting time envying others, do your research, figure out how to come out on top, and work on yourself. If you can’t do that, envy will only make you miserable, so you’d be better off focusing on enjoying life within your means. The bluebird of happiness is right there at home. As for the sentence, “People who are having serious romantic relationships with elite men their own age, with the same kind of financial expectations as papa-katsu,” it’s so packed with unsettling absurdity that I hardly know where to begin. For now, I’d like to let it slide and give it more time to mature. I sincerely hope it develops even further. Taro
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Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
Even if it’s difficult to land an elite guy, it’s fairly doable to catch one before he becomes elite. Girls who know how to judge men do exactly that.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Why not become a Minato Ward girl and join the competition for elite men? You could even apply for a dating reality show. If papa-katsu didn’t exist in the first place, your allowance would be zero. And there are also people doing papa-katsu who don’t get any offers, so couldn’t you think of yourself as relatively fortunate to be receiving an allowance at all? There’s always someone above you and someone below you. I wonder where we should decide to be satisfied.
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You may only be seeing the serious side of him, which is why he seems enviable. That “elite” guy might actually be having a lot of fun on the side. I’m not an elite myself, but I have many different sides too, and there are quite a few people like that around me. What we have in common is that we put our all into everything, so depending on how you look at it, we can seem serious.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I think it’s because the person asking doesn’t have what it takes to appeal to an elite of the same generation.
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Because young elites are incredibly rare.
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