I told a man I have a boyfriend, and he said, “Sorry, I can’t see someone who has a boyfriend,” so he turned down our first meeting. Maybe I just happened to encounter someone who wasn’t okay with it, but do most of you find it difficult to date a girl who has a boyfriend?
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I don’t really feel comfortable talking to someone while lying and hiding it, but I’m also conflicted because I feel it’s important to let them keep their dreams alive.
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I’m fine with women who already have boyfriends. If anything, I’d rather they just be honest about it.
I ask anyway, but most women say they’re single. When they do have someone, they usually respond as if they wouldn’t be doing this if they were in a relationship.
Once, I was surprised to meet a woman who said she was getting married in three months.
It’s not really an NTR thing, but I find myself wanting to make her feel better than she does with her boyfriend.
Of course, I know it’s hard to beat sex with someone she’s deeply in love with—women can get excited just from being affectionate, even without much technique, haha.
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I don’t want to see women who have boyfriends, so if I find out, I won’t meet them again. I’d feel bad for the boyfriend, and I don’t like that. I also don’t expect them to lie about it. We can just talk normally, and if our terms don’t match, then it’s perfectly fine to part ways. I honestly have no idea what they mean by “letting someone keep dreaming.”
Generally speaking, that kind of concern is something people in the nightlife industry deal with. Rather than thinking, “I’m the one who decides, and anyone who doesn’t meet my terms is out,” they want to monetize and win over everyone they meet. How many popular hostesses do you think openly say they have a boyfriend? Looking into that a little would probably help you understand the standard playbook.
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My stance is that having a boyfriend is fine, and I’ll support other papas too.
Hopefully your next offer comes from a papa who’s okay with you having a boyfriend.
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Whether you keep it hidden or are open about it, I think you should do whatever feels more comfortable for you.
In my case, the person I’m seeing has one boyfriend and two or three papa supporters, including me. There are people who are okay with that, so I think you should do whatever you feel is right.
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No, I don’t let it bother me—I continue seeing her.
The woman I’m seeing has one boyfriend, two men she only goes on dates with, three friends with benefits, one papa (a male supporter) she sees at least once a month (me), and two other papas she sees a few times a year.
I’m not looking for some dream scenario.
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