As the songwriter, I was truly happy to hear from a woman who said this song encouraged her.
Thank you, too!
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Even though papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is done for the money, I feel it’s an emotionally draining environment.
People say that if you don’t like someone, you simply shouldn’t see them, but papa-katsu is something women who need money turn to, so everyone is desperately putting up with things and enduring them.
Lately, I’ve been wishing that men wouldn’t assume that paying means they can do whatever they want or treat the girls carelessly, and that they would be at least a little kinder to them.
Of course, in exchange for receiving an allowance, I believe the basic expectation is that we should give it our all, provide good service without cutting corners, and make sure they have an enjoyable time.
(Some people may say this sounds like the sex industry, but from a woman’s perspective, a dating club is basically a somewhat more lenient form of the sex industry, with just a little more right to refuse.)
That said, I’m thinking of writing lyrics from an oji’s perspective next, but I don’t know many songs that were popular with the oji generation.
I’d be grateful if the gentlemen could tell me about songs that hold special memories for them.
Thank you in advance (๑╹ω╹๑ )
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I was surprised to hear, “Is papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) really something you’re supposed to put up with?!” But I guess some people do see it that way (>_<)
If you don’t click with someone, there’s no need to force yourself to meet them, is there?
If you’re a working adult, you probably understand that whether it’s your job or dealing with people, putting up with things and being considerate are just part of everyday life.
And please don’t post parody lyrics. I didn’t find them funny.
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That sounds really tough—having to put up with things because you’re short on money.
I don’t think the other person will realize it unless you cut things off. Maybe putting up with it is what leads to more bad papas.
Your conflicting feelings are really intense. Did putting him down, getting people to sympathize with you, and venting make you feel better?
I really wouldn’t want to make an offer to someone who thinks like you.
Reading posts here makes me not want to make offers to women who are genuinely struggling financially.
I, Fuu, look for women who just want a little extra spending money on top of an office lady’s salary.
Just as good papas are rare, women with good personalities are rare too, so I guess everyone’s attention ends up concentrating on them.
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Some people treat papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) like a job, while others simply become paying customers.
There are people like that, and there are people who aren’t.
It’s also true that some men and women are genuinely satisfied because they can enjoy it so much.
I hope it can be comforting and fun, while also providing you with an allowance—even if only to some extent.
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I agree that simply giving someone an allowance doesn’t mean you can do whatever you want to them, but I also think it’s wrong to post mocking comments about your partner in a question box.
Both actions show a lack of respect for the other person. And mocking someone in a question box isn’t exactly “putting up with it” or “enduring it.” It’s absurd to mock someone and then expect them to treat you kindly.
You say you have at least a little right to refuse, but the person making it “only a little” is none other than the woman herself.
Even if it’s supposedly “loosely regulated sex work,” if you consider yourself a sex worker, then you should simply do the job properly. Sex workers don’t write lyrics ridiculing their customers and post them at the club.
I’m not going to tell you the song that holds special memories for me.
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