Tips Mar 10, 2022 10:29

Why is the success rate for negotiating Type B so low?

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Based on my experience, Type C has a success rate close to 100%, but with Type B, they suddenly stop responding and it doesn’t lead to a second or third meeting. Type B is supposed to work better after the second or third meeting, right?
👤 Asked by Guest 👨GenderMale 🎂 40s 👑 Universe male member
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
B-type women tend to be less accustomed to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). I also get the impression that B-type women have a narrower range of men they’re attracted to than C-type women. From a C-type woman’s perspective, you may be technically in her strike zone—but pretty close to the edge of the ball zone.
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I’m not sure, and I’m sorry—this is really just my own speculation, but maybe their ulterior motives are completely obvious, like, “I want an adult relationship, I want an adult relationship—I’m going to make a move!” Or maybe they stare women up and down the moment they meet, or make them feel uncomfortable during dinner…
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It seems that the girls I’m seeing fairly often get verbally abused when they turn down an adult relationship after the second date or later. I think there are quite a few people who misunderstand things like you do. Type B simply means they decide after the first meeting, but they may still decline—and I believe the same applies to Type C.
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“B is okay for the second or third meeting, right?” “What is?” Obviously, it didn’t continue because B found you, the questioner, far too unacceptable. Please reread the staff member’s explanation carefully. If B didn’t like you, I’m sure they would have made that clear.
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I think it’s because dating them isn’t fun and you don’t really see any benefit to meeting up. If you can make the other person feel comfortable and reassured ahead of time through a letter date, that success rate might jump to nearly 100%. For Type B, I think a letter date is the best option.
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フラグメーカー
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🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
As a general tendency, C-type women choose the men they date based on who they are, while B-type women choose based on the allowance. Yet male members assume that C-type women choose based on the allowance, while B-type women choose based on the person. That’s roughly where the mismatch lies.
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前澤(スタッフ)
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
I think women tend to have one of two views on B. One is: “I’d be willing to be intimate with a man I’m attracted to (and I’d receive an allowance too), but I can’t do it with a man I’m not attracted to—even for an allowance.” The other is: “Basically, I’m willing to be intimate for the allowance (I’m completely a C type), but I can’t do it with men who lack basic cleanliness, so I’ll choose B because it’s easier to turn them down. (You can turn them down as a C too, but some men are persistent.)” If it’s the latter, I think your success rate would be fairly high. But if it’s the former, you need to approach her carefully, just as you would when courting a woman normally. The fact that C is almost always fine suggests that, at least when it comes to cleanliness, you’re probably okay. So I think there may be another issue. For example: - Your conversation during meals - The restaurants you choose - How you treat the staff It’s possible that women are deciding they can’t be with you based on things like these. I think it would be a good idea to take another look at those aspects.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’ve never been turned down by either B or C. In fact, I’m not very comfortable with D, so I’ve never made an offer to one. I hardly ever make offers to C either. Some women who are B-types do want an adult relationship from the very first day, though. In short, maybe the allowance just isn’t enough.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
It depends on the person.
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