Tips Mar 10, 2022 07:29

When we're walking on the sidewalk during a date, some people make me walk on the tactile paving.

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They walk on the regular part of the sidewalk but keep edging me over, so I'm walking on the tactile paving in heels. I feel like I'm going to trip. They do it unconsciously, but it makes me think they're really inconsiderate. Has anyone ever thought that much about the other person? Probably not, right?
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Can’t you speak? You could simply say, “It’s hard to walk on the tactile paving, so could you move a little to the right?” You keep demanding consideration from others while getting irritated yourself. It’s ridiculous. Marika
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You could just say something, like that it’s hard to walk here. If they haven’t noticed, wouldn’t pointing it out be considerate too? Ideally, you want a relationship where both people are thoughtful toward each other.
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Walking on tactile paving in heels is difficult, isn’t it? (>_<) If you can gracefully say, “I’d like you to do it this way,” you might just come across as an elegant woman ♪♪
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The person asking this question, who’s been venting at someone uninvolved first thing in the morning, doesn’t seem very considerate of others. If even I’m mindful of where women walk, I’m sure many other men are considerate about it too.
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I can’t think of many roads with tactile paving running along the entire length of such a long stretch. Is there something unusual about the route the questioner is walking? Still, if they simply haven’t noticed it, I think it would be okay to point it out to them.
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Making you walk on the tactile paving… it gets in the way of people who actually need it, and it’s hard to walk on, too. Why not walk behind your partner instead? If they tell you, “Walk beside me,” you could say, “It’s difficult to walk on the tactile paving…” Popular people are genuinely considerate and smooth without even realizing it! Though maybe they’re actually being very intentional about it… Either way, it makes you happy because it feels like they really care about you, doesn’t it? I’m the type who’d be completely taken in if someone treated me that smoothly. LOL.
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Walk on the side closest to the road. On stairs, let the woman go first when going up, and go down first when descending to keep her from falling. This is so basic it shouldn’t even need saying, but this world is crawling with clueless, hopeless guys who can’t even manage the basics. Go to the dentist. Do something about that protruding belly. Get hair removal. Have those spots removed. Take a shower before meeting a woman after work. Change your undershirt and dress shirt. Change out of that wrinkled suit. Shave the stubble that’s grown in by evening. Go get a manicure. Don’t use your hands on her when you’re terrible at it. Hold back until she initiates a kiss. And raise the allowance! I’m typing this while taking a dump, by the way. m(_ _)m
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Men who have always been popular often don’t realize that they should have the woman walk on the sidewalk side… They’re unaware of so many things, so if you don’t tell them, they simply won’t notice. You really should teach them.
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I don’t think that person is considering either people who need tactile paving or their companions. I try to be mindful of both. I also make sure to walk on the side closest to the road, among other things. I do my best to be considerate in various ways.
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