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Mar 9, 2022 19:24
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Posting photos on social media is something only silly couples do.
The less intelligent the couple, the more likely they are to post photos of themselves together—or pictures of their kids—on social media. Then, before you know it, they’re getting divorced, lol.
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Posting photos of yourself with someone you’re dating on social media means anyone around the world can see them. If you break up, it could turn into a nightmare. Just imagining it gives me chills.
Especially before starting a job—if the HR department does a social media check, couldn’t they revoke your job offer? It’s scary. Really scary.
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Hmm… I think it’s probably because I’m not confident I can take a good photo, and I feel a little embarrassed about it.
It’s a separate issue from whether or not I’m loved.
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Age: 50s
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You should think carefully about what it really means to be loved.
I don’t think taking photos together and posting them on social media is proof of love.
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Age: 40s
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Read between the lines. The guy posting on social media might be doing it because his girlfriend is making him—possibly to ward off other women.
And for all you know, she made him retake that photo over and over, and he’s completely fed up with it.
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I don’t think it’s fair to assume you’re not loved just because of something like that.
If he treats you well normally and you’re happy when you’re together, I think that’s what matters.
Posting photos makes it seem like he’s just trying to show off how much he cherishes his girlfriend.
If he really wants to take photos, why not say, “Let’s take a picture together!” and take one yourself to send him? You could also ask, “I’d like you to take pictures of me sometimes,” or, if it really bothers you, ask, “Why don’t you ever take pictures of me?”
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I think people who post photos of their girlfriends on social media aren’t doing it because they love them—they’re just exhibitionists who love showing themselves off.
It has nothing to do with how much they love their girlfriends, so you don’t need to worry about it.
Other
Everyone expresses their feelings differently.
I don’t think showing off is the only way to show love.
Can’t you feel his affection in other ways?
If you’re always envious of other people, you may end up being unable to truly love the man right in front of you.
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