I joined and met nearly 15 women in a short period, but I haven’t felt like having an adult relationship (intimate) with any of them from the beginning until now. I even went to hotels with some of them because I didn’t understand my own feelings, but three times in a row I ended things partway through because I just wasn’t in the mood. I apologized to them and feel bad about it. Of course, I still gave them their allowance properly, and some even said they were actually lucky because of that…

Since your goals seem to align with those of women seeking Type A arrangements, I don’t see any problem. Going forward, it may be best to make offers only to women seeking Type A arrangements.

I’m sick.

Why not make it a Type A arrangement with dinner only, or go to a Ginza club where you can have drinks and enjoy some conversation? If you don’t understand why the questioner is doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), then Fuu doesn’t understand it either...

If you enjoy simply being together, maybe that’s all that matters for now (*^^*) I’m assuming you’re worried because he doesn’t seem to get in the mood, which may be related to male sexual function… Have you tried making sure he gets plenty of nutrients? Omega-3 fatty acids (from fish♪) and exercise are said to help improve testicular function☆

Rin passed this question on to me, so I’ll answer. I have a strong sex drive, but ejaculation isn’t a must for me. In that sense, my sex drive isn’t actually that strong. I generally set the allowance based on a certain amount for an adult relationship (intimate), but the moment I hand over the money feels several—or even dozens—of times better than ejaculation. So whether we have an adult relationship or not becomes irrelevant to me. That’s why, when a woman is on her period, I’ll just have dinner with her and still give her the allowance for an adult relationship. The other day, I gave one of my monthly arrangement partners a little over 100,000 yen as an extra payment, and it felt incredibly good. We only met for about 30 minutes. I met her solely to give her the money. “I’m amazing for being able to give this amount without asking for anything in return. This feels sooo good ♡” That’s the kind of feeling it gives me. It was a moment when my need for self-actualization was fulfilled to the highest degree. Like me, the person asking this question may be at the self-actualization level in Maslow’s hierarchy of needs. In a way, it’s only natural that people who aren’t at this level can’t understand me at all. That’s why I’m perfectly fine even when people criticize me. I just think, without any emotion: “Well, I guess there’s no way they could understand.”

It probably depends on how old you are and whether you’re married. If you’re single, maybe you want a normal romantic relationship rather than seeing someone you met through a dating club? If you’re married, perhaps your family comes to mind?! I’m not a man, so I can’t really say… Makeo-san has mentioned that the moment he feels best is when he’s giving his allowance, so maybe you have a similar feeling. I’m sure Makeo-san will answer you.