I hear that if you’re late to the interview, it may be difficult to get a second interview or join the service. Is being late really considered that serious? Have you ever had male members with ADHD? I feel like I’d get along well with someone like that.
As I mentioned before, the woman I’m closest to has been late 100% of the time so far, lol.
But she definitely doesn’t have ADHD.
Whether you’re okay with that is up to the man.
Besides, do two people with ADHD even make a good match? I’m not really sure about that.
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If you’re aware of that about yourself, why not set the time an hour earlier?
When I have a date, I make sure to arrive at least 30 minutes early. Trains can be delayed, you know. They often stop running during seasonal changes.
Besides, being late is a serious matter. Why are you trying to justify it as if it were perfectly normal?
I’ve never met a man who was the type to be late. People who are often late usually aren’t very good at their jobs, either.
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Having ADHD can make a lot of things difficult, can’t it? (>_<)
I think being on time is important in society too. I’m usually at the location two hours early, lol.
Some things may be unavoidable because of ADHD, but you’re an adult now, so let’s work on finding ways to stay organized and be more careful♪
For example, you could carry small sticky notes with you and write down everything so you don’t forget. There are lots of ways to manage it (*^^*)
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I think being on time is really important.
When someone shows up late from the very first meeting with a stranger, doesn’t it make you wonder if they’re reliable? In the future, men may also make reservations to meet you, so last-minute cancellations and lateness can be extremely inconvenient.
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My semi-ace has ADHD. It’s not mild, either.
She told me she’d never even told her parents, and after she opened up about having ADHD, I grew even more fond of her. In a way, she’s become one of the most important girls to me.
We have a monthly arrangement, but she forgets how many times we’ve met, so I regularly compare notes with her.
She’s also routinely late. But since I know she has ADHD, I just wait for her with a smile. She’s honestly adorable.
There was one time I changed our usual meeting spot. Even though I told her an hour beforehand, “Today’s meeting place is different— it’s at ○○!” she still went to the usual place and messaged me, “Huh? Where are you, Makeo-san?” It really made my heart melt—I thought, “I have to protect this girl.”
Among the girls I have on monthly arrangements, she receives the lowest allowance. But when I told her the monthly amount, she was genuinely shocked and struggled to find the words.
Apparently, everyone before me had offered her extremely low amounts. The other day, I gave her a substantial amount on top of her usual allowance, and she was so happy she looked like she was about to cry. Moments like that make me proud to be a papa (a male supporter).
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Interviews exist to determine whether you’re able to participate. Please attend one and let them assess you.
It’s important not to be late. Depending on how late you are, it can inconvenience everyone—the restaurant the man reserved, the male member, and the club staff.
There may be men with mild ADHD as well. However, just like women, they’re assessed during the interview to determine whether they can participate, so I don’t think there are any with severe symptoms.
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