They forget conversations we had on a recent date and say the same things again, or forget what they said and change the details so their story no longer adds up.
It hasn’t even been that long—this happens even when we meet again in the same week.
The other person is in his 60s.
Does he have so little interest in me that he forgets our conversations and changes what he said, or does he have several other women?
Even when I tell him, “You said it this way last time,” he still can’t remember.
Does he really have a poor memory, or is he doing it on purpose?
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When you talk to bosses in their 60s, many of them repeatedly tell stories about their past accomplishments at work.
They don’t remember whom they’ve already told them to.
If you haven’t entered the workforce yet, it’s great that you’re getting valuable experience!
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You can’t trust someone whose story doesn’t add up.
Usually, they either have a poor memory or just say whatever comes to mind in the moment. But bad liars also tell inconsistent stories, so I’d be cautious.
Some people may do it deliberately, but there’s no reason for me to trust someone who behaves in a way that makes them difficult for others to believe. So I’d still be wary.
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I’m with “Makeout Man” on this one (lol).
But seriously, here’s my answer.
I often work with business owners in their 50s and older, and while it varies from person to person, a fair number of them do repeat the same stories.
They meet far more people than you probably imagine, so it’s understandable that they can’t remember everything. I think it’s better to focus on becoming someone they can have a good conversation with. (I’m confident I’m very good at this part, by the way.)
If he gets your name wrong or is clearly talking about another girl, you might want to end things. But if he repeats a story on a general topic, I think that’s something you have to accept to some extent, so there’s no need to take it negatively.
That said, conversations that don’t add up could be a problem.
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