Do you usually use the same place for the date and the meeting point? I often pick her up somewhere that’s easy for her to get to and then travel to the date location, so the round trip takes about an hour and a half. However, the women I’m seeing all set the date length at four hours. I know because they always try to leave after four hours. So from my perspective, the actual date feels relatively short. Since I sometimes take time away from work to meet them, I’m not sure what to do. For reference, the daily allowance is 20,000 yen without an adult relationship (intimate), and 50,000 yen with one.
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I always choose a meeting point that the woman can reach within an hour from her home.
Would it be considered rude to make the date location the meeting point as well?
I’d really appreciate some advice on how other members handle this.
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For Fuu, the usual arrangement is to meet at the restaurant where the date will take place. If a woman says the location is difficult to find, he’ll go pick her up at the nearest station or somewhere similar.
A woman spends an hour getting there, and then you travel another 45 minutes one way? That’s quite a long way to go.
Unless there’s some special reason, wouldn’t it be better to make the place where she’s already spent an hour traveling to the restaurant and meet there?
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Sometimes I’ll use the date location as the meeting point, and other times I’ll pick her up by car.
She’s never set a time limit for our dates, but I try to be considerate of her schedule the next day—such as having to get up early—as well as how she’s feeling that day, and I’ll wrap things up when appropriate.
On the other hand, if she says she’d like to stay together longer, which I really appreciate, I do my best to accommodate her. I’ll also drive her home or have her take a taxi so she won’t have to go out of her way.
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I agree with Dai.
If you’re traveling for an hour and a half, that would be like going from Osaka to Kyoto, wouldn’t it?
I think she may have misunderstood and assumed that, since the club initially told her the date would last around four hours, all subsequent dates would also be within that timeframe.
Personally, I’m the type who prefers to spend as much time together as possible.
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I don’t see any problem with making the date location the meeting place.
That said, you mention spending an hour and a half traveling there and back, but from the woman’s perspective, it wouldn’t be strange for her to consider that part of the date as well.
Since I assume you’re driving, that’s essentially a drive date.
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