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Mar 8, 2022 21:17
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Are you a man registered with an agency?
Did you submit feedback?
Or was this through an app or website rather than an agency?
Anyone who doesn’t put the allowance in an envelope must have no conscience. They’re the kind of person who can commit fraud and other wrongdoing without hesitation. Give proper feedback and have the agency ban them.
Other
My partner told me they were having a hard time at work because of COVID and couldn’t focus on dating, so we agreed to part ways.
I told them to get in touch once work settled down, but by the time they contacted me again, I no longer had any availability. I read only what I could see in the LINE notification and left the message unread.
It hurt, but continuing to exchange messages would have been pointless… I’m sorry.
Marika
Other
Men who don’t put the allowance in an envelope probably don’t feel guilty about it. Either their sense that deceiving people is wrong has gone numb, or they’re simply born psychopaths.
Women who get men to buy them expensive things and then disappear by blocking them are much the same.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I try not to do anything hurtful, so basically, no.
That said, I do feel bad about the women I’ve been intimate with once but didn’t continue seeing. I tell myself it can’t be helped since it comes down to compatibility, but still…
Incidentally, a man who doesn’t put the allowance in an envelope is doing it deliberately, so there’s no way he’ll feel remorse. Any woman who thinks he might regret it is being far too naïve.
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t have one, actually.
Come to think of it, I wonder what women think afterward when they put their panties back on after a bath and get ready to leave（笑）
Reading this question brought back some fond memories...
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m not sure I’d call them terrible, but there have been several times when I realized that something I said casually had made someone uncomfortable, and I regretted it.
People who intentionally withhold the allowance are trying to deceive you, so they probably don’t see it as a mistake. They likely feel pleased with themselves for getting away with it.
The only time they might regret it is when enough negative feedback from women builds up and they’re forcibly banned.