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Mar 8, 2022 09:29
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A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
It comes up in the Q&A box all the time, but don’t you think agreeing to a monthly arrangement from the very first meeting makes it more likely you’ll get deceived?
Rather than blaming the man, let’s consider this the result of the questioner being too trusting.
Other
Was the issue that you trusted them, so you didn’t check what was inside…?
I’m sure you’ll forget about it soon… Just put the whole thing behind you, buy yourself a cake, and treat yourself. Watch a movie, read a book or manga, watch some anime or cat videos—do whatever you can to forget about it (>_<)
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
With papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) through apps or websites, it might happen since you’re on your own.
At a dating club, though, a papa (a male supporter) would be shown a red card and banned immediately for doing something like that. He wouldn’t be able to make offers again, and he’d also lose the membership fee.
A dating-club papa probably wouldn’t do it anyway—there’d be nothing in it for him...
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I can’t answer hypothetical questions.
Every now and then, someone posts a hypothetical question, but what’s the point?
Questions like, “What would you do today if the world were going to end tomorrow?” belong among friends, not on a site like this.
This question isn’t useful to anyone, is it?
If what you’re asking is out of concern—say, you’re worried about leaving the hotel, opening the envelope afterward, and finding no money inside—and you want to know how to deal with that, then simply check the contents of the envelope while you’re still in the room.
With a dating club, the club has the man’s address and real name on file, so I don’t think something like that is very likely to happen.
With that in mind, sticking to men you meet through dating clubs is one option.
いっつ・みぃ
Male
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Other
Even if he blocks you on LINE, the club can still track down its male members, so don’t hesitate to report him to the club immediately. They can’t get directly involved in allowance payments, but I’m sure they’ll take some kind of action.
Leaving someone like that unchecked only creates disadvantages and risks for all members—both men and women—and for the club.
It’s me.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’ll reflect on my own carelessness for being deceived.
I’ll also take a hard look at my actions and consider whether I was in the kind of relationship where someone would treat me that way.
After that, I’ll report it to the club, just in case.