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Mar 8, 2022 08:48
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It sounds like they’re indirectly telling you to go get these things done—what do you think?
By the way, what’s the minimum you’d need for beauty expenses?
Including things like dermatology treatments and haircuts…
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A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t understand why, when you’ve thought things through that carefully, you still feel the need to give it a label.
If you want to give her something extra, why not just hand it over as a bonus?
Other
I don’t think I’d mind either, but if it happened out of the blue, I’d probably be like, “Oh no, I couldn’t possibly accept this! I’m sorry!” So I think I’d be able to accept it more naturally if he guided the conversation there smoothly (๑>◡<๑)
If I did accept it, I’d probably ask, “What would make you happy if I got it nice and clean?” though…
Other
If you’ve already been talking about beauty-related topics with your partner, it probably won’t feel out of the blue—for example, if they regularly visit a cosmetic dermatologist as a hobby or have mentioned wanting hair removal.
But if you suddenly bring up beauty expenses, they may appreciate it while still wondering, “What do you mean??”
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Tell them it’s for beauty expenses and give them some extra allowance, and every single one of them is delighted without fail (according to our company’s research).
Just the day before yesterday, I gave my favorite girl ¥100,000 for beauty expenses.
Full-body medical hair removal: ¥600,000
Nose job: ¥1.2 million
Under-eye bags: ¥600,000
Orthodontic treatment: ¥2 million and up
I have a general idea of what these things cost. Teeth are a bottomless pit once you get started, though. The clinic I go to charges ¥700,000 or more per tooth, so doing ten can easily cost ¥7 million.
When did the world become like this…?
For reference, here’s what I spend on beauty treatments:
Full-body medical hair removal (excluding beard): ¥600,000
Teeth: planning to spend ¥5 million or more
Spot removal: ¥240,000 for both arms, ¥100,000 for the face, ¥120,000 for the shoulders
There’s still so much more I want to do. I’m completely hooked on the beauty-treatment rabbit hole…
Other
I understand how you feel.
If he gives you money for beauty treatments without saying anything, it could come across as, “You look unpresentable, so go tidy yourself up,” right?
If the conversation goes like, “Do beauty treatments cost money? Would you like to get one if you had the money? How much would it cost? Then should I cover it for you?” I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that.
The cost can vary widely.
Marika