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Mar 7, 2022 12:58
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Would that turn him off?
If so, why would he ask me that in the first place? Is he testing me?
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No one said, “Submit the list by tomorrow. Make it in Excel and include the standard prices, too. If anything is expensive, you’ll need to present a separate explanation for why you need it,” right?
Though it would actually be pretty funny if they had.
It’s more like, “I like you” (whether they genuinely mean that or are just saying it within the context of a dating club, I don’t know), “so I want to get to know you better. What kinds of things do you like?” And then, “If there’s something you want, I’ll buy it for you.” That sort of vibe. Although, I guess they didn’t actually say they’d buy you anything.
I’ve never met them, so this is just my imagination.
You’d be silly to hand over a list.
Marika
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t think your papa (a male supporter) sees “things you like” as the same as “things you want.”
He probably just wants to learn your preferences so he can get to know you better.
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I don’t think “Tell me what you like” necessarily means “I’ll buy you whatever you want,” so I wouldn’t send a wishlist…
I’m not sure how long you’ve been seeing each other or what kind of relationship you have, but if it’s still fairly new, maybe he means that he wants to learn more about you by asking about the things you like.
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Have you only been seeing him for a short time?
If so, I don’t think he’s testing you. It sounds more like the papa (a male supporter) is simply trying to make himself look good.
It’s basically another way of saying, “I find you attractive, so please value me too.”
So your impression will probably improve if you don’t send him a wish list.
If you do want him to buy you something, as I’ve mentioned here a few times, it’s better to start with something inexpensive—around 1,000 yen.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Instead of asking anonymously, I think you should just ask them directly, “What’s with the sudden change?”
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If things were still that vague, I wouldn’t send a wishlist~ (>_<)
I feel like, as we get to know each other and talk more, we’re supposed to share our preferences and the things we like with each other naturally… Don’t you think?
I don’t think he’s testing you or anything either (*^^*)
P.S. He didn’t actually say, “Tell me what you want,” right?? ( ˙꒳˙ )???