I want to have a child with a favorite woman I’m seeing.
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Would you be uncomfortable having a child with a man 20 years older than you?
I have enough assets to ensure that she and the child would never have financial difficulties.
She’s in her early 30s.
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When I was around 30, I was seeing a man in his late 60s who had been handsome when he was younger. On top of that, he was incredibly smart—not just well-educated, but genuinely sharp.
I didn’t want to get married, but I did want children. I figured that if the father were him, the genes would probably be good too, so I thought I wouldn’t mind having a child with him. (Lol)
In any case, first tell me how the woman feels about it, along with the specific amount of money and how it will be given.
Make sure she’ll be taken care of even if you die tomorrow.
Then we can talk.
Marika
Oh, and make sure everything is properly arranged so there won’t be any disputes with your family after you die.
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You’re already in your 50s, aren’t you?
Once men reach their 40s, the risk of having a child with a birth defect increases. If that woman were to have a child with a birth defect or health problems, she would be the one to suffer most, so you shouldn’t casually assume you want children.
☆This doesn’t mean you will definitely have a child with a birth defect, but the risk is higher.
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Even a 20-year age gap can still be a romantic possibility♪
However, when it comes to having children, it’s a very delicate subject, so it’s important to know how seriously and sincerely you’re thinking about it.
Being a single mother is really difficult. Would you seriously consider all of the challenges that come with it? Money can’t make up for everything—it’s a matter of life.
If your parents oppose you having a child outside of marriage, you may not be able to rely on support from your family either…
I understand wanting to have a child of your own♪ They’re adorable, aren’t they! But the fact that you’re not considering marriage is a major drawback (>_<)
I hope you’ll also come to understand just how many single mothers are struggling (⁎ᴗ͈ˬᴗ͈⁎)
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What happens with marriage after having his child?
Is he saying he can’t get married because he already has a family, but wants you to have only his child?
If you love him deeply and marriage is also an option, then having a child could be a choice. But personally, I wouldn’t want to have a child as someone’s mistress.
No matter how much money you have, it may not fill the emotional void. You’d first have to think, “How am I going to explain this to my parents?” And when something happens, would you have someone nearby who could help you? The person you’d want to rely on most already has a family… You might not even be able to contact him when you need to. I think that would be painful.
Being a single mother is harder than you can imagine.
Of course, it depends on how the woman involved feels, so why not talk it over with her? A 20-year age gap is totally fine, in my opinion!
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Shouldn’t marriage come before having children?
Also, it won’t work just because that’s what you want—the other person has to agree too. From the sound of it, you’re looking for an allowance-based relationship, so this may be a difficult proposition.
It really comes down to whether you can win them over.
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I think it’s fine as long as both people are happy with it.
This is outside the club, but among people I know, the largest age gap is a man in his 70s and a woman in her 30s. They’ve even had children together.
I’m not sure how many times he’s been married, but they got married this time as well, and they’ve taken thorough steps to plan for inheritance so he can leave behind a massive fortune.
I’d estimate it’s several billion yen.
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Honestly, thinking this is only about money is a very old-fashioned way of looking at it.
Having a child is one thing, but if your partner grows tired of raising the child and it leads to neglect, that would be an unfortunate situation for the child.
This is something you can only start considering once your partner genuinely wants to have a child with you.
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It depends on your relationship with her.
If you’re close enough to consider marrying her, you should ask her. Otherwise, even 100 million yen probably wouldn’t be enough. Offer more and get down on your knees.
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