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Mar 6, 2022 17:36
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It’s not just food—women also have periods, plus hanging out with friends, makeup, medicine, transportation, detergent, and all kinds of other daily necessities.
Just staying alive costs quite a bit.
Do you realize that?
For a woman in her 30s, I feel like there are probably even more things she needs lol
Given the situation described by that man earlier, I’m curious how much the male respondents—especially the “loser” guys—would send her, so please tell me♡
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🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Rather than a specific amount per transfer, my monthly arrangements vary from ¥220,000 to ¥1,000,000.
Aside from the monthly allowance, I’ll also occasionally give her ¥500,000 or so for things like beauty treatments.
There are various reasons I’ll give extra money, but I don’t give it just because she says she wants a bag. I don’t like that.
Usually, it’s for things like:
- Birthdays
- Christmas
- Moving
- A new-job celebration
- Beauty treatments
- Getting a driver’s license
Those are the kinds of occasions when I’ll give something extra.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I understand that being alive costs money, but isn’t hanging out with friends unnecessary for survival?
You’re no different from those men who play pachinko while receiving welfare benefits.
Other
Before joining a dating club, I met around 50 people through apps, and there were quite a few people like the person asking this question (I’ll leave out the details).
From what I understand, the person in the previous question had a job, was receiving an allowance, and they had also discussed some additional benefits, so I don’t think he was trying to make her live on 1,000 yen.
Anyway, I only continued seeing two or three people from the apps.
I’m not a dating club promoter or anything, but the staff’s comments and interviews allow me to narrow things down considerably. So far, I’ve had a 100% success rate in finding women I can continue seeing.
From what the women I’m seeing tell me, there also seem to be plenty of problematic men, so it isn’t only an issue on the women’s side. In the end, it’s a matter of supply and demand, and I’ve come to realize that even relationships that make outsiders wonder, “Why are they seeing each other?” can still work out somehow. (The clubs make money from that too.)
Of course, if you look at the bigger picture, you could say the same thing about me, but I’d still like to conduct myself as reasonably as possible within all this.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I don’t understand what people find so enjoyable about laughing at someone.
They clearly said they’re a beginner, so I think people could be a little more understanding.
Other
I hope the person who asked the previous question isn’t feeling hurt…
Since they said, “I’m new to this,” I think they were simply asking because they didn’t know what to do. I answered too, but after reading the other responses, I thought, “Ah, I see!”
I’m worried that if people laugh at someone like the person who asked this question, others might assume that all of Universe’s female members are like that.
Even when you’re anonymous, please don’t forget that there’s another person on the other side. I’d really appreciate it if everyone would keep basic online etiquette in mind. m(_ _)m
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
It costs money just to get by as a man, too (lol).
Personally, I wouldn’t do a monthly arrangement—it sounds too complicated.