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Mar 6, 2022 03:24
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I’m in the middle of a huge fight with my papa right now. I don’t even want to see his face, and I was thinking about leaving the hotel we’re staying at. But this papa believes that if we spend less time together, the relationship will deteriorate and eventually end, so I’m staying quietly at the hotel.
Sometimes I wonder if being able to put up with things like this means I’ve become more calculating, too.
I’m writing this while wishing I could hurry up and be comforted by another kind, hands-on papa~
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Are you both feeling energized and enjoying yourselves? That’s what matters.
If you’re feeling that happiness, share it openly and keep things going.
But if there isn’t much joy or excitement, you can’t express your feelings, or you don’t feel appreciated or needed by the other person, then it’s okay to move on.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
> So you won’t get cut off
This makes it sound like you’re the one in the weaker position.
Of course, most men prefer women who act that way, so a woman who keeps doing things to avoid being cut off will probably be well-liked as she is now.
But I think it would be good to take it one step further and think about how you can make the other person become completely captivated by you.
If he becomes captivated by you, he’ll be the one worrying about being cut off.
I think you should do some research and put it into practice to figure out how to make that happen.
Changing your perspective can sometimes change the world you see.
Good luck.
Other
I feel like I’m seeing a woman who keeps that kind of mindset. At the same time, I think she maintains a comfortable distance for both of us—or, more specifically, a distance that works well for me. In return, I try to reflect that as much as possible in her allowance and other forms of support.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’d like to date a woman with that kind of mindset. That’s wonderful.
If I were to offer one piece of advice:
Don’t fall too deeply in love, and maintain the level of distance your papa wants. But when you’re together privately, put your all into the adult relationship (intimate).
Pay close attention to him, learn what he likes and what makes him happy, and do those things for him. I think it’s best to act in ways that make him happy.
I hope things continue to go well with your papa.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
It may be somewhat like romance, but I think it’s important not to let it become heavier than a romantic relationship.
Other
I think you’re fine just as you are.
Thinking, “I need to do this so he won’t drop me,” is a negative mindset, and that kind of attitude will inevitably come across to some extent. Even when you’re simply being yourself in the relationship, your feelings still show. If you interact with him thinking, “I like him” and “I’m having fun,” he should feel good about it too.
いっつ・みぃ
Male
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Other
It depends on your papa’s type and personality, but it’s heart-melting when you can subtly show that you like him through both your words and actions.
If your papa likes a bit of calculated cuteness, go ahead and act that way on purpose.
That said, some papas dislike that kind of behavior or may find expressions of affection too intense, so make sure you can tell the difference.
It’s me.
Other
When you’re with your papa (a male supporter), try to smile and look like you’re having a good time. If you keep asking for presents, he’ll cut you off.
👨 Male
Universe member
I think the best approach is to do what your papa (a male supporter) wants.
Other
Express your gratitude and make sure to tell him how happy you are to spend time together.
I think it’s a good idea to treat your partner in ways that would make you happy if someone did the same for you.
Akari