Aren’t there a lot of people who try to justify cheating (papa-katsu)?
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They usually say things like their wife stopped caring about her appearance.
But, um, isn’t that your fault? You’re the one who doesn’t provide your wife with the time or money to spend on beauty treatments. That’s how it feels to me. And you men are just too unattractive. No woman wants to be beside an unattractive man and think, “I want to look more beautiful than anyone else.” An unattractive man can only be with a woman who matches him. As women get older, they absolutely have to invest money to maintain their beauty, and I think a woman’s enduring beauty is the result of her financial resources. When she’s with a man everyone considers handsome, a woman naturally wants to maintain her beauty, right? If she can’t do that, it’s entirely the man’s responsibility, isn’t it???
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I don’t think it can be justified, and I’ve never tried to justify it.
I don’t know whether many people feel the same way.
My way of thinking is pretty close to the situation Aya described in her answer. I know I’m a hopeless case, and I’m upfront with my partner about that.
And just as It’s Me mentioned, both I and most of the people around me tend to use money that way. Maybe I’m lucky, but my partner has also told me that they’re fine with the situation.
I’m going to work hard and try to earn a lot of money.
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That’s a pretty rigid way of looking at it.
Women cheat too. Some women are willing to respond to—or even accommodate—men who want to cheat, and there are men who do the same for women who want to cheat.
In the end, both sides are equally responsible.
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Now, now.
Don’t take everything men and women in the papa-katsu world say at face value.
For all you know, his wife may still be called “a beautiful lady” no matter how old she gets. A charming, adorable woman will probably stay adorable forever…
There can’t be any foolish man who tells his dating partner the whole truth… and the same goes for women.
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I started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) because it’s what I wanted to do.
Men who bring up their wives as an excuse are just childish and emotionally dependent.
And if you’re the kind of person who says a woman’s inability to stay beautiful is a man’s fault, you’re childish and emotionally dependent too.
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I’m your cheerful Awa-Awa~
Just as female members—including the person asking this question—join dating clubs for all sorts of reasons, I think male members do too (*^^*).
I’ve noticed that most married men say pretty much the same thing as the person described in the question（笑）. Maybe it’s just a standard line, like women saying, “I have debts…” or “I have student loans…”
I don’t think it’s best to take things too cynically. Why not just enjoy the conversation and hear them out a little more??
Sorry if this was hard to follow!
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I understand what you mean.
But what about men who give their beautiful wives plenty of luxury, spare no expense on their beauty, and still cheat? There are plenty of them, right? Men who cheat despite having a beautiful wife.
Men like that probably aren’t satisfied with having their masculinity recognized by just one woman—their wife.
They may feel insecure unless lots of women acknowledge them as “a man,” or they may be the type who get a huge rush from having their masculinity validated.
The pleasure of proving their manhood is like a drug, so it seems they can’t stop unless something decisive happens to make them quit.
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