He keeps telling me how worried he is because his daughter apparently skipped university and now has to repeat a year, but if the parent is a slacker, the child will be one too, right?
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Children grow up watching their parents.
Why can’t he realize that himself?
Why is he asking me for advice about his daughter…?
We’re around the same age, but when he talks about his daughter, I start thinking too much about the fact that he has a daughter around my age, and it makes me uncomfortable, so I wish he would stop.
Why does he bring up his daughter? …What does he want me to do? I don’t understand, so please tell me.
Does he want to end our relationship because he has to pay the cost of her repeating the year?
The downsides of just indulging your desires and spending all your time having fun without patiently working toward anything are actually pretty significant…
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My sister took two extra years to graduate, but I graduated on schedule with fairly good grades. We have the same parents, of course, so it’s not their fault.
I don’t think she was asking you for advice in the first place. It was probably just casual conversation.
I often hear that it feels creepy when someone talks about a daughter around the same age as them. Papa supporters should be more mindful of that.
I doubt any man would make a fuss over an amount equivalent to the cost of repeating a year, so I wouldn’t worry. If she was trying to break things off, I think she was simply using it as an excuse.
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> Why does he keep bringing up his daughter?
Probably because he thinks you’ve gotten close enough to talk about anything.
He may not realize he’s making you uncomfortable, so I think you should gently let him know.
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Your children and your partner are two different people, so I don’t think it means their dad is simply slacking off (*^^*)
I read in a book that even identical twins grow into different individuals depending on their environment and the friends they spend time with♪
Please be sure to listen to what your daughter has to say (๑>◡<๑)
I think she wants advice from someone around her own age♪
I don’t think she means any harm or has any ulterior motive •*¨*•.¸¸♪•*¨*•.¸¸♬︎*
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It’s Awawa♪ Seattle recommended it to me♪ Thank you❣️
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I was about to say, “Feeling sick? Then take some motion-sickness medicine,” if we were sitting under the red lanterns in Shimbashi.
Close one, close one.
Why bring up my daughter? Because I want to brag about her. She really is worth bragging about.
Ah, is this exactly why people find me so creepy? I see. No wonder even motion-sickness medicine wouldn’t help.
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I feel like saying, “The parent slacked off, so the child does too,” is a bit off.
If you’re uncomfortable being told things like that, you can bring up a different topic yourself, or say something like, “I don’t feel good listening to stories about your daughter, especially since she’s around my age.” There are plenty of ways to put it.
It’s not as though he said, “Since you can’t meet, I’m reducing your allowance,” so I don’t think you need to overthink it.
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Papas generally say whatever comes to mind in front of women. There usually isn’t any hidden meaning behind it. So you can tell him, “Could you stop talking about your daughter? It’s kind of upsetting,” but honestly, I think it’s fine to just ignore him.
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I guess I shouldn’t talk so casually about my daughter. I’ll reflect on that.
It was just small talk, with no deeper meaning. Sorry.
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It’s Awa Awa! I’m so happy.
I offered a letter date, and we became friends.
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