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I love my boyfriend, but I can’t stop papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) 😭 What can I do to quit?

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He’s a much better person than my papa supporters—he even graduated from Kyoto University. But I just can’t stop… For those of you who managed to quit, what was the turning point?
👤 Asked by Guest 👩GenderFemale 🎂 20s 👑 Universe female member
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石橋 誠一(スタッフ)
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I’m Ishibashi from the staff, and I’d like to answer as well. If you truly care about your boyfriend, you should quit right away! How would you feel if you found out that your boyfriend was doing mama-katsu? ><
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Imagine what would happen if your boyfriend found out about your papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). Imagine yourself having broken up with your boyfriend. If you think you’d be okay either way, then I think it’s fine to continue with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
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Why not try organizing your thoughts by writing down the pros and cons on paper? In the end, you can’t bring yourself to quit because the benefits of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) outweigh the drawbacks. Realizing that alone may give you an opportunity to reflect on yourself.
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カズ
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You can’t stop because you don’t truly want to. If you genuinely decide to quit, I think you’ll be able to.
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