I’m 21, and my real dad is 43, but all of my papas (a general term for men who give you money in exchange for sex) are 10 or 20 years older than my real dad.

I only date gentlemen who are kind and offer an allowance I’m happy with, so I have no complaints, but there’s one thing I never know how to respond to. My papas often say things like, “I’m around the same age as your dad, so is it really okay for me to do this with someone young enough to be my daughter? Heh heh,” while getting excited and erect. No, no! My real dad is much younger, and, without any favoritism, he’s handsome and fresh-faced. Thanks to my real dad’s good-looking genes, I was born with a fortunate appearance—fortunate enough to receive a generous allowance through papa-katsu. So please don’t project my real dad onto yourselves!! That’s what I find myself thinking... Some papas also say things like: “How old is your dad?” “I always wanted a daughter like you.” I’m always considerate and reply, “He’s even older than you! I wish I had a handsome papa like you.” What would be the right thing to say in this situation? Is my current response the best one? If I tell them my real dad’s actual age, would they stop seeing me because they feel inferior or something? Or do men who pay to have sex with women 10 or 20 years younger through a dating club not feel that way in the first place?