I feel like this is more common with papas in their 50s and older, but there are several papas who get upset if I go even two days without contacting them.
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I understand that they feel lonely and want to stay connected, but do we really need those same old “Good morning” to “Good night” messages every single day?
Or should I just put up with that kind of thing as part of the relationship?
The papas I think are cool and genuinely good supporters are usually the ones who don’t constantly message each other.
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A handsome papa (a male supporter) has always been popular, so he probably isn’t interested in “good morning” and “good night” messages, right?
If a papa gets overly excited just because a woman messages him, he’s probably either lonely or hasn’t had much luck with women before. If he’s in his 50s, he might get carried away simply because she’s young.
Just brush him off casually.
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If keeping in touch feels like a burden, I think it’s okay not to contact him. Why not talk it over with your papa (a male supporter)?
I don’t think a relationship is something either person should have to force themselves into.
In our case, we communicate every day. It’s a regular good-morning-and-good-night message routine that we discussed and agreed on when we first met. We’ve kept it up ever since（笑）
We’re not exactly lovey-dovey, nor do we feel like friends or like a boss and subordinate.
We’re more like an old man and his daughter.
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The other day, there was a discussion about papas in their 60s being the most common.
Why lump everyone together based on age…?
I’m not particularly good-looking either, but we only contact each other when necessary.
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Several of my classmates in their 50s are also doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), and they all seem to be the type who “never contacts her first.” I’ve never heard a papa (a male supporter) say he gets upset when the woman doesn’t contact him.
If anything, I thought a typical papa in his 50s would find it annoying if his PJ contacted him too often.
That said, there are also couples who contact each other constantly and seem totally lovey-dovey. In those cases, I wonder if the PJ is the one putting up with it.
As for whether you should put up with it: I don’t think papa-katsu is something you should do if it makes you miserable. But if your goal is to earn money through allowances, I do think some degree of patience is necessary.
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If you can’t stand it, then you don’t have to put up with it. But if you can tolerate it and it keeps him happy, I don’t see the problem with replying to his LINE messages.
If sending a simple “Good morning!” or “Good night!” means he’ll be happy and willing to see you, I’d send them too!
I’m sure other women also see him as cool and a good papa, and he’d probably be happy to receive a “Good morning!” or “Good night!” from them as well.
So I don’t think it’s something that’s particularly common among men in their 50s and older—it’s more a matter of the individual.
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I need to be careful not to lose my head and bombard him with LINE messages too.
The guy who messages you every day might be totally smitten. Tell him you’ll break things off unless he raises your allowance.
A good papa who doesn’t contact you probably has plenty of other women.
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