Long-term arrangements are difficult, aren’t they?
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I’ve probably just ended things with a woman I’d been seeing for about six months.
How long do your arrangements usually last?
I suppose it depends on the woman, though.
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I think it depends on the woman.
Some women part ways fairly quickly, while others have stayed in monthly arrangements for five years, two years, or a year and a half.
Until about two years ago, I was constantly making offers and looking for someone better. But it’s surprisingly hard to find anyone who surpasses the women I already have in ongoing monthly arrangements, so these days I make a point of cherishing them.
Specifically:
- Don’t do anything they dislike
- Take thorough care with grooming and body odor
- Be supportive of their other papas and boyfriends
- Maintain an appropriate distance and keep contact to a minimum
- Choose food they like and create a pleasant atmosphere when dining
- Use private rooms or seats with as much privacy as possible
- Take note of the things they like and bring them up in conversation
- Use a clean, comfortable city hotel
- Be gentle during the adult relationship and learn what feels good for them
- Make sure they enjoy themselves too
- Express my gratitude and give them their allowance
When you find a good woman, you want the relationship to last as long as possible, right? They don’t come along very often...
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I’ve answered a similar question before, but once the relationship starts, it doesn’t seem to end.
I’m in my 60s, and there’s an age gap of over 40 years, so I’ve always assumed she’d eventually turn me down. But it hasn’t ended.
She’s already left the site, so it feels like this may continue indefinitely.
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Russia is scary. *cry-laugh*
If it lasts more than two weeks, I’ve never once been dumped by the other person. If things are good, it can continue for years.
Though naturally, moving or starting a new job can create a break in between.
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On the other hand, once you’ve been seeing each other for over six months, it feels like it becomes a long-term relationship that will continue as long as neither of you grows tired of the other...
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Don’t overthink it.
Women receive an allowance, so if it lasts for three months, there’s no reason for the woman to end it—as long as you treat her properly…
To begin with, men can’t live without women, nor do they have any reason to live without them, so you’ve got to value women that much.
My wife’s latest classic line:
My wife was angry, telling me to clean up. Eventually, she told me, “Enough already!” and even accused me of lying, saying, “What are you, Russia?”
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I think it depends on the other person’s situation and what kind of arrangement you’re looking for, but everyone I’ve continued seeing—including the people I’m currently seeing—has lasted at least six months. With everyone else, it ended after the first meeting.
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A woman’s circumstances can change, too, so as Tetsu says, I think it really comes down to timing and chance.
She was the first woman I made an offer to after joining the club, and we’ve been seeing each other for about a year and a half.
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Few of the women I’ve seen have lasted more than six months.
I’ve been registered with the club for about three years, and the woman I’ve been seeing the longest was the second woman I ever made an offer to through the club. We’re still seeing each other today. I guess it really comes down to fate.
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