I’d like to ask for some advice about a first date.
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When a male member goes on a first date with a Type C woman, is it possible to decide based on the chemistry and her actual appearance that he doesn’t want the relationship to develop into an adult relationship (intimate)?
Would it be rude to end the date after just a meal?
And in that case, would it be difficult for the relationship to develop into an adult relationship (intimate) on the next date?
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I don’t really understand the feeling of not wanting things to develop into an adult relationship, but then wanting that when you meet again.
Women have their pride too, so if a C-type arrangement is turned down at the first meeting, they may lose interest in meeting again. I suppose it depends on the person, though.
I’m a C type, and I’ve had women turn me down at the first meeting and then have an adult relationship with me the second time.
If you’re going to continue making offers as a C, perhaps you should try having an adult relationship at the first meeting if you’re unsure, then decide whether you want to continue. Otherwise, you could change your offer to B.
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Yes, that does happen.
After meeting in person, if I felt it wasn’t quite right or didn’t see it continuing, I’d just end things after dinner. If I didn’t invite them to meet again, we’d naturally go our separate ways and that would be the end of it.
It might be considered a little rude, but we both have the right to choose, so it goes both ways.
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Yes, there are.
In my case, though, it’s only when we couldn’t agree on the allowance.
Even if she isn’t quite my type, if she’s a C-cup woman who’s close to a D, she may be counting on that allowance, so I generally let things progress anyway.
Apparently, some men prefer not to take things further on the first meeting and would rather do so on the second. If that’s the case, I think it’s best to mention it when arranging the meeting.
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I rarely make offers to C-type women, but with a few of them, I didn’t invite them to an adult relationship on the first day, and things developed into one on the second or third date.
I’ve done this with popular women. We’re still seeing each other and are extremely close. For reference, I gave her ¥40,000 for our dinner date on the first day.
As a matter of etiquette, you’re supposed to invite a C-type woman on the first day, so I always make it clear that I’ll invite her the next time. In other words, there have been cases where I treated a C-type woman like a B-type woman.
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Almost never.
There was only one time when she looked so different from her photos that I wondered if she was a completely different person. She also asked for the allowance she wanted, so we parted ways after a few dozen minutes.
Other than that, never.
I think it’s rude to meet for dinner only.
If you don’t want things to develop, there’s no reason to meet again.
I’m Paper Airplane, and Type C arrangements make me feel just a little obligated.
Also, if you want to enjoy the relationship, grow closer to your favorite girl, and keep things going for a long time, then on the first date, if she’s someone you chose because she’s your type, it wouldn’t hurt to make sure she has a good time and becomes interested in you—enjoying yourselves, hitting it off, and building a good rapport together. That should help if you’re thinking about developing the relationship further.
In a sense, I think it’s also important to get some experience under your belt.
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Yes, I have.
Since I already have multiple partners, I find myself less often wanting things to develop into an adult relationship (intimate).
If you ask whether it’s rude, I’d say it is. That said, just as women have the right to turn someone down, I believe men have that right too. When I don’t feel I want things to develop into an adult relationship, I try to end things with dinner only (no intimacy) as smoothly and politely as possible.
I don’t want to meet again with a woman I didn’t want to pursue an adult relationship with, so I’m not sure what the last question is getting at.
This excludes reverse offers and offers to female respondents. In those cases, I make the offer because I’m seeking a personal relationship separate from the usual relationships formed through a dating club.
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