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Feb 27, 2022 10:11
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The men’s member page here looks less like a place to find a mistress and more like an escort-service photo catalog.
Also, almost all the women show their full faces and figures and have detailed profiles, yet they’re viewed by a great many male members... Since escorts almost never show their faces, isn’t this even worse than an ordinary escort service (lol)?
I’d like to ask the women who register here with their faces shown: doesn’t that kind of thing bother you?
From my perspective as a man, being able to see beforehand the faces and information of women I may be able to have sex with is lucky—you don’t have to worry about getting someone you’re not attracted to, unlike at an escort service.
And since the club is making a huge amount of money from this, they probably don’t want to change the system.
Are the women simply desensitized to it? Maybe they don’t have a real sense of it because they can’t view their own pages.
I can’t help feeling sorry for the women.
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
In the adult entertainment industry, showing your face means it’s posted on the website for the whole world to see—anyone with an internet connection can view it.
Universe only shows faces to its male members.
The difference is huge, isn’t it? How can someone not understand something that basic?
Are you okay, questioner?
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Come to think of it, I heard that a man who recently tried to join was turned away after saying something like, “It’s ridiculous that women have the right to refuse.”
This isn’t a sex-work establishment, so women are allowed to say no too. I think the person asking the question is the one who’s mistaken.
Could this just be sour grapes because he couldn’t join?
Other
Since a certain number of members—both men and women—see it as an alternative to paying for sex, they might think it’s better than a sex-work profile photo.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
That may be how you see it…
Both men and women are all different.
Whether it’s the sex industry, a club, or a romantic relationship, what men and women seek from each other may not be all that different.
At the same time, if you enjoy dates and a relationship much like those of a romantic couple, I think it becomes something entirely different from the sex industry.
With a club arrangement, since both parties’ intentions are clear, I think it’s possible to have even more enjoyable dates than romantic couples do—without things becoming routine or overly settled, and without getting into arguments.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
There are probably a certain number of men who mistake papa-katsu for sex work.
But the questioner came across as condescending and unpleasant.
I feel sorry for the women who have to deal with men like that.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
My first impression when I looked at the member page was that it looked like a marriage agency.
Perhaps you got that impression because you think交際クラブ are basically sex services.
I imagine the women you’re interested in either blur their photos, register without showing their faces, or sign up through a salon. Many women also register only for a short time, then hide their profiles or leave as soon as they find someone.
If you feel sorry for them, I suggest either quitting and staying out of it, buying out a major dating club and reforming it so that no one has to show their face, or making offers to every woman and keeping them all under your wing.
You seem to have the heart of a boy, but anyone can say anything if it’s just talk.