Tips Feb 24, 2022 11:28

Why are men in their 70s at these clubs so incredibly confident? It’s really scary.

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I’m 20 years old and a second-year university student—I only recently attended my coming-of-age ceremony. The men who usually approach me are overwhelmingly in their 40s and 50s. I’ve never had anyone in their 60s approach me. However, I’ve been approached by three men in their 70s so far. Since I’ve basically never turned down a first meeting, I met all of them, but men in their 70s act as if the age gap doesn’t matter at all. Men in their 40s and 50s often start with something like, “I’m sure a young woman wouldn’t want to be with an older guy like me,” but for some reason, men in their 70s come in with the attitude that even a small allowance is fine and, of course, we can definitely have an adult relationship (intimate). I honestly can’t understand how they can act as though dating a woman at least 50 years younger is completely normal. Every single man in his 70s has said or done something I couldn’t tolerate, so I was the one who ended things. All three of the men in their 70s I’ve met have made the same awful, completely unfunny jokes, like, “I want an allowance too—I want to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)!” Why are men in their 70s at these clubs so unbelievably confident??????? It honestly scares me.
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I don’t think it depends on age. There are smart, wonderful people in every age group, and there are also people whose vulgarity shows through, regardless of their age. I wonder if the people who are always asking, “From what age does someone become a ___-something?” tend to attract others just like themselves. Akari
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
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Hmm… There are people like that even in their 50s. “I mean, do you know who I am?!” I used to think that was just something people said in manga or TV dramas, but some people actually say it in real life. (lol) So, people like that exist across all age groups—you probably just happened to run into one this time. Anyway, leave him a negative review. If enough people do that, he’ll be forcibly removed.
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🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
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That’s straight-up personal slander, lol. I’m 82, so I’m already out of the running. It’s too late for me now ♡ From a lying sore loser.
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出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
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Rather than being afraid, just think of it as a valuable lesson in life. Some people in their 70s are genuinely good too.
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