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Which is better (or less bad): a high-end erotic massage parlor or papa-katsu?

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I’m the person who asked earlier about moving. Thank you for your answers. I currently have four regular papas (each pays around ¥150,000 a month without meeting, plus ¥50,000–¥80,000 per meeting with an adult relationship), and I also have about four offers lined up for March. I think I could make a sufficient living through papa-katsu, but I’ve also been offered a position at a top-tier erotic massage parlor (all-nude and deep-kissing). I was told the pay would be ¥50,000–¥60,000 for an eight-hour shift, with the possibility of earning even more if I become popular. If it weren’t for COVID, I would have wanted to work hard at the erotic massage parlor too, but the situation is currently quite dangerous. Would it be wiser to work there while reducing my shifts to once a week or so?
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What do you do at a sensual massage salon? Is it different from a men’s esthetics salon? I imagine the adult entertainment industry isn’t making much money because it’s the off-season and there’s COVID. Do you really think customers will be coming nonstop all the time? Your thinking seems a little naive. Just because you do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) doesn’t mean you’ll get offers every day, and you only tend to get a lot of offers at first. You’d definitely make more money with a regular job. What do you think about that?
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papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) → You can refuse Sex work → You can’t refuse If you’re okay with that, go ahead. Dealing with an unspecified number of people sounds tough. If Fuu is a woman, then it’s papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
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If you’re going to work at a sensual massage salon, I think the smartest approach is to work hard while you’re new, build up a decent base of regular clients, and then cut back to one shift a week. Regardless of COVID, this is the best way to succeed in the adult entertainment industry. It sounds like you’re receiving quite a lot of support from your papa (a male supporter), but you never know when things might come to an end, so having a backup plan is your best bet. That said, as someone looking for a papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) partner, I’m not interested in someone like you…
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I’m not really sure what “the highest-end erotic massage salon (full nudity and deep kissing)” involves, but I’ve heard that at some men’s esthetic salons, the women may have sex with the customers. Since it says “full nudity and deep kissing,” wouldn’t that possibly include sex as well? If so, would you be having sex with one person per hour for around ¥7,000? That seems rather cheap for something described as “the highest-end.” (If sex is involved.) I don’t know how the system works at all, so I may be completely off base, but if you only get ¥7,000 for having sex with one person, it seems like you’d make more money working at a high-end adult establishment. > Which is better—or less bad—between a high-end erotic massage salon and papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)? I think it ultimately comes down to which one you feel suits you better. Since you’re the one who has to decide what you’re comfortable doing, it’s hard for someone else to say. You may want to discuss in advance whether you can quit right away if you decide the erotic massage salon isn’t for you. The salon might also be concerned if you suddenly quit.
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Isn’t a sensual massage salon basically part of the adult entertainment industry? Some people may choose not to approach women who work in that industry, so I feel like sticking with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) should be enough for now. If you’re receiving that much allowance, wouldn’t you be able to make a living? You’re already getting ¥600,000 a month from four regular papas without having to do anything, so I’d say you have a natural talent for it—or rather, you must be quite popular in papa-katsu.
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I don’t think there’s any difference in terms of infection risk between sex work and papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
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When I first started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I think I had about the same number of papas (male supporters) and similar amounts as you. I’m uncomfortable with the adult entertainment industry, so I’d quit if I were you. I couldn’t kiss someone I didn’t know. You may not yet know whether papa-katsu or the adult entertainment industry is a better fit for you, but if papa-katsu suits you, there’s no need to force yourself into doing that kind of work. For now, once the current offers settle down, if you really can’t continue with your papas, perhaps you could try the adult entertainment industry. I think doing just one or the other is enough.
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