What’s the best gift or surprise you’ve given to your serious girlfriends—not women you met through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?
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I’m sure all you wonderful people have some great ideas.
On an ordinary day, unrelated to birthdays or other special occasions, my ex-boyfriend used to give me flowers and say, “Thank you for everything.” I still can’t forget him.
I joined this site because I wanted to forget him, but…
How do you get over an ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend you really loved?
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The gift my ex-wife was happiest to receive was a giant Pikachu plushie.
Although her pet parakeet kept pooping on it, which really annoyed her, haha.
The only way to forget someone is to overwrite those memories with new ones.
I think you’ll gradually forget him as you build a genuine human connection with another man through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
I hope you meet someone like that.
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I used to choose several kinds of preserved flowers from my favorite brand, arrange them in a small box, and give them as anniversary gifts.
I kept it up for over ten years.
I’d express that year’s theme or memorable events through the types and colors of flowers, then add a short message of a few lines. It was fun to come up with, and I never ran out of ideas.
I never expected it to last that long, so I didn’t put much thought into it at first(^^)
After I gave each one to them, they displayed it in the same spot in their room, so it felt like their collection grew by one every year. They were considerably older than me and well-off, so I had no choice but to use my head. At some point, it started feeling like I was doing it for myself, but they looked forward to it every year, so I couldn’t change it halfway through.
It was a gift that was the exact opposite of a surprise—you basically knew what was coming.
I’m sure I gave them other presents too, but this is the only one I remember ^^
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I guess you have no choice but to meet someone who’s willing to do more than that.
I don’t think you have to forget them. If you like someone, they can remain someone you like.
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