I’m struggling with a decision about moving.

I recently lost my day job, and a man 20 years older than me—whom I originally dated normally and who has financially supported me for about five years since then—has asked whether I would move in, saying he would arrange an apartment for me. (We are not currently intimate.) I’m studying for a qualification I already hold and plan to start my own business, so I don’t intend to take another day job. I registered with Universe Club and received quite a few offers, and I was also accepted after interviewing at a top-tier men’s esthetic salon, so I’m hesitant to move. My reasons are: • If I no longer have a day job, it would be difficult to rent a place at my current standard. • By moving, I might end up having to do whatever this man 20 years older than me says. • Moving would make it difficult to continue working through the men’s esthetic salon or Universe Club because of the location, and I really like my current urban lifestyle. Those are my main concerns. I would sincerely appreciate any advice.