Reading the rambling question from that obviously unpopular middle-aged guy really hit close to home.
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I’m probably even worse.
I offer ¥50,000 per meeting, but fewer than one in ten will go to a hotel.
Lately, I’m even considering just acting like a Type-A man.
Is there really any point in a middle-aged guy with this little appeal as a man using a dating club?
I keep thinking, “Isn’t that exactly why I use a club—because I have no appeal?”
What do you think?
I’d appreciate it if you could be completely honest.
👤Asked byGuest👨GenderMale🎂40s👑Universe male member
> I feel like people use dating clubs because they don’t have much appeal on their own.
> What do you think?
First of all, I think you should try to change that way of thinking.
It’s not because they lack appeal themselves—it’s because they can’t make a move anywhere else, perhaps?
Just look at Mr. Makeo! Even here in this anonymous Q&A box, he’s incredibly popular with women（笑）
So, I think men who lack appeal will be turned down regardless of whether they use a dating club.
Take Mr. Makeo as your role model and aim to become a Type-A man who’s hugely popular.
Whatever you do, don’t try to take things as far as an adult relationship (intimate).
Just wait patiently until the woman makes the first move（笑)
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Hmm? Are you playing both sides?
You write something like that from one account, then post another message as if you were a different person—is that what’s going on?
I think you should do whatever you like.
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It’s similar to the question men at matchmaking agencies often ask: “Why isn’t my dating life going anywhere?” You can make a rough guess—maybe there are issues with his appearance or communication skills—but you won’t know what advice truly fits that person unless you meet him in real life.
Why not break the concern down a little further?
For example: “This happened with a woman during dinner. Was I in the wrong?” Something at that level would be more helpful.
Otherwise, it’s hard to get a sense of what kind of person you are.
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The only thing that comes through is that you’re not a follower of the Carlos school of thought.
You’re humble, still young, and seem to have nothing but potential. If you’re still in your 40s, an allowance of ¥50,000 is perfectly fine.
There’s a lot you can do. Start with strength training and running. Stick with it for a year and you’ll become dramatically more attractive.
At the same time, I’d like you to work on your grooming. I’m a worse-looking version of Muneo Suzuki, so I’m more beauty-conscious than any of my monthly partners and invest a lot of time and money into my appearance.
First, go to the dentist. Cavities and gum disease really do smell, and old metal fillings can also be a source of odor, so work on improving those little by little. If possible, I’d also like you to get hair removal—even just for your VIO area and underarms.
You should also work on eating quietly. Try eating with a mirror in front of you.
The one thing you absolutely must not do is waste your days drifting along. You’ll deeply regret it five years from now, thinking, “I should have started five years ago.” There’s no way to become popular instantly. It happens little by little. You don’t have to make huge changes—just keep improving yourself bit by bit every day.
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I think there is.
First of all, you’ve managed to try more than ten times, right? Without using a dating club, you probably wouldn’t have had that many opportunities.
Next, try to figure out why you were turned down and work on addressing those issues.
If you feel you’re not attractive enough, you can still find a way to navigate the dating club scene accordingly. The simplest approach is: “Money is a pheromone.” It even says so in Mac’s icon.
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If you have enough money to make offers to 10 people, wouldn’t it be better to give 10 to one person and decide how many times a month based on what you can afford?
If they insist on 5, there must be some reason they can’t do more, so maybe you should ask the staff or see if there’s something you can improve.
They’re so young—why would that be?
Marika
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