Why do some people here keep insisting that their allowance is 50,000 yen? Honestly, it just seems like a gathering of men who can only pay women 50,000 yen and cheap women who are satisfied with that. The amount of the allowance is a personal choice, so do whatever you want—but bragging about it makes it seem like you’re showing what level the women around you are at, doesn’t it? I’ve never heard of anyone receiving dozens of offers who meets men for 50,000 yen.

I think it’s probably just because there are so many questions about allowances, and when people answer based on their own experiences, it happens to come across that way. So, in my opinion, the people most at fault are those asking about allowances in the first place. If no one asked those questions, there’d be no need to give allowance amounts either. Actually, maybe you could apply to become an answerer and respond to every allowance question with something like, “Mine is 10.” But answering all the time would be exhausting, so ultimately, I still feel that the people asking those questions are the ones most in the wrong.

You haven’t advocated for it, and you’ve repeatedly said that everyone is free to choose. You only need to decide your own worth and refuse to compromise on it. The respondent has decided that her minimum is 50,000 yen and won’t budge. That’s her choice too. Both men and women are free to accept or reject offers. If it bothers you that much, when you receive an offer, simply tell the club staff, “I won’t accept anything under 50,000 yen,” and have them communicate that to the papa (a male supporter) for each pay-per-meeting arrangement. That should help eliminate unsuitable offers, since you can’t put it in your profile. What I really wish you would stop doing already is looking down on women who do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for 50,000 yen or less. Please realize that you’re putting them down and stop. There are even blogs by women doing papa-katsu through apps or Wakuwaku Mail saying things like, “Even with looks like mine, I can get 30,000 yen through papa-katsu—Wakuwaku Mail is a godsend, the best!” The whole world doesn’t revolve around the questioner’s values. You do you, and let others do them.

Once you start receiving dozens of offers, the amount of the allowance gradually becomes less important. Those women are more likely to meet you regardless of the allowance—even if there’s none, and regardless of whether it’s high or low. Ultimately, I think the allowance is determined by the man. I don’t think there’s any point unless both people can enjoy themselves and have a lively, fulfilling experience. It only has real value for both sides when the money is an added bonus. Life is too short to waste your time—and waste money—on something you can’t bear doing without an allowance.

Was there really anyone advocating for that? Personally, I mention the allowance when someone asks how much it is, or when I feel it would be helpful to add that context to my answer. Something I consider normal isn’t something to brag about. I also don’t think the allowance reflects a woman’s level. Just let me do as I please.

They’ve said that each of them has their own reasons for asking for 50,000 yen. If you don’t feel you can accept those terms, you can simply decline the arrangement and look for someone who will offer more. I don’t think the respondents are bragging. I think they’re just answering honestly because people ask them. The allowance is probably the most sensitive topic for everyone, so I really admire how openly they talk about it. I’ve never shared here how much allowance I’ve received myself. Before I learned why the respondents here ask for 50,000 yen, I thought the amount of allowance I received reflected my own worth. But I realized that isn’t necessarily the case, thanks to the respondents honestly explaining both the amounts they receive and their reasons for them. Even so, whether someone is willing to accept those terms is ultimately up to each individual.

Going out of his way to promote an allowance of 50,000 yen seems like missionary work to recruit more followers of the Carlos faith. He has overwhelming support from male members, and part of his influence has even reached TheSalon. His influence is enormous, and he keeps driving down the going rates for allowances on Universe and TheSalon to outrageous levels. There isn’t a single benefit for female members. It’s basically like the Taliban, refusing to recognize women’s rights. Even though they insist: “There’s no going rate for allowances.” “Allowances are something you negotiate.” For some reason, they absolutely refuse to budge from a flat 50,000 yen. I honestly can’t understand why it’s never 40,000 or 60,000. That said, I recently saw one of their followers turn traitor and then bizarrely lash out, saying, “I pay 100,000 yen or more!!” This is purely speculation, okay? Just speculation. But I’ve started wondering whether the leaders of the Carlos faith actually don’t have any money. If that’s the case, that’s perfectly fine—just be honest about it. If you have money but offer a low allowance, you’re simply being cheap. Really cheap. There’s apparently talk of wanting to test whether someone will agree to 50,000 yen, but that argument has zero credibility. There are a few things I’d like to test myself. For example, telling someone during a dinner date that the allowance is 50,000 yen and seeing whether she agrees. She does agree, but I give her 100,000 yen or more once we’re in the room. Why not limit the test to the first dinner date or first adult relationship (intimate) date, and then give her 70,000 yen or so afterward? When they can’t even do that, it makes me wonder whether they actually have money in the first place. Still, I can completely understand why you desperately don’t want to believe that I offer such high allowances. Of course you don’t—I’m the Carlos faith’s one and only natural enemy. Though, despite calling myself its natural enemy, I’m completely losing so far (embarrassing). I’ve planted a few plot threads, just in case things go beyond pro wrestling and turn serious. I’ll bring them back at just the right moment♡ I can’t wait (・ω・//))

I don’t think the allowance amount necessarily reflects a man’s ability to pay. Some men offer a high allowance but don’t actually have the financial means to sustain it.