I make sure not to forget that money is involved or lose sight of the boundaries that come with it, so in that sense, I do consider it something I’m paying for—not in a negative way.
That doesn’t mean I act superior or forget to respect the other person. I have to be a good papa (a male supporter), because women have the right to choose and refuse, and they can always end things with me.
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When it comes to allowances, I don’t attach any special feelings to them—it’s simply part of the rules of a dating club. I’m not “buying women” or “selling myself” or anything like that. I’m just calmly following the rules.
The only thing I’m conscious of is that you shouldn’t let supply and demand line up exactly, I suppose.
What I’m giving them is just money—surplus money.
But women are offering the most important thing they have: their bodies. So I always make sure to offer an amount that’s definitely higher than the allowance they’re expecting.
I have absolutely none of that petty, stingy “Carlos doctrine” mentality where you think, “The going rate is five, so five is enough.” If a woman hopes for seven, I’ll give her ten; if she hopes for ten, I’ll give her thirteen or fifteen. That’s the kind of approach I take.
And it’s not just about the allowance. I do everything I can to help women become independent from me. Specifically, I support their independence by giving them money separately from their allowance—money they don’t have to pay back—as well as technical support.
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I see an allowance as compensation for the time a woman sets aside to meet with me, so I suppose that means I’m buying her time.
Ideally, men would have the authority to determine the allowance, while women would have the right to refuse, creating a balanced power dynamic. Women should strictly avoid relationships they’re not comfortable with.
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