The papa I’ve recently been seeing seemed to want to spend the night. He said he snores, but earplugs would make it fine—and that the girl he used to see wore earplugs too. But I don’t want to stay over badly enough to wear earplugs, and we’ve only met twice, so I’m not emotionally invested yet.
I’d understand if he offered some extra allowance.
If he starts inviting me to stay over frequently, I’m thinking of ending things.
I’m considering telling him that I won’t spend the night until we’ve been seeing each other for at least a year.
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Are there really that many men who want to spend the night? Personally, I wouldn’t want to stay over unless I were with a woman I felt comfortable with and knew well.
Maybe it’s just being penny-pinching. Since they’re paying an allowance, they want to make sure they get plenty of time together—even though they don’t know whether they’ll physically be up to it. I think it comes from the selfish assumption that the woman would just go home and sleep late at night anyway, so she might as well accept the allowance and stay over.
If you don’t like something, make it clear and say no. Or you could raise the allowance dramatically. Realistically, you may be mentally and physically exhausted and unable to do anything the day after staying over, so even double the allowance probably wouldn’t be enough.
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I’m guessing, but men often feel really drowsy after climaxing and probably want to sleep until morning.
After intimacy, don’t you immediately switch into deep-sleep mode?
When I’m brought to climax many times, I feel so happy and relaxed that, honestly, I just want to sleep until morning.
Also, I think staying overnight makes me happy because it feels a little like being in a romantic relationship.
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Followers of the Carlos cult always want to spend the night, even though their allowance is so low. Is their brain stuffed with crap or something? If you want an overnight stay, pay more, for crying out loud.
They keep pushing things toward lower and lower allowances, driving the going rate into the ground. They’re truly awful. I really feel for the PJs who are getting caught in the crossfire.
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I agree—you probably don’t want to stay overnight wearing earplugs, either.
If an overnight stay is unavoidable, ask him to book two rooms.
When I first started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I also wanted my supporters to stay overnight with me. But I decided not to pursue it as long as I was in a situation where I had to ask for an additional allowance.
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