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Feb 19, 2022 21:54
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A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Is it really true that the median allowance is 50,000 yen?
I often hear that allowances are even lower when using apps.
I offer 50,000 yen because I’m rarely turned down at that amount. Other people have mentioned the same reason.
Also, when I ask the women I meet through Universe what allowance they’re hoping for, the answer is usually 50,000 yen.
If every woman started asking for 60,000 yen or more, I think men would raise their offers too. But considering the current balance of supply and demand, unfortunately, I don’t think that will happen.
Other
Because we have five fingers on each hand.
Other
Many people would ideally like to pay less—or receive more—but the negotiation wouldn’t work out that way, so both sides compromise. As a result, ¥50,000 is probably the amount people tend to settle on.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
For things whose true costs aren’t clearly visible and whose value is difficult to assess, the market—through the balance of supply and demand—gradually determines their worth.
I imagine the current rates came about over time as a point of agreement where both sides think, “That seems about right”: the papa can afford to pay that much, and the woman feels satisfied receiving it.
Women naturally prefer higher allowances, but if the average rate rises too much, the number of papas who can afford those amounts will steadily decrease. That means fewer offers and fewer opportunities to date.
Since papas are the ones paying, they want a high-quality arrangement at a reasonable price. So if they find a good woman who accepts a lower-than-expected allowance, offers will pour in.
That’s simply how the market works.
With the spread of the internet, it’s also become easier to get a general idea of the average rates. Papa-katsu blogs and Twitter often say that an adult relationship (intimate) typically pays around ¥30,000–¥100,000. In reality, if you try it yourself, a cute-looking woman with an ordinary, attractive appearance can probably expect to receive around ¥50,000.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
Are you stupid? The median is 4—between 3 and 5, it’s 4.
Even 4 is too high for me.
I’m fed up. Seriously, maybe I should just delete my account. I’m so done.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
5 should be enough…
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I wonder why that is.
The reasons I’ve heard from women are, “The app rate is 30,000 yen, so I want more than that,” and “That’s what my scout told me.”
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Because the founder of the Carlos cult says it’s five. There’s no basis for it.
If the founder says crows are white, then black becomes white. That’s the good and bad of anonymous Q&A boxes. Maybe shutting down this question box would actually be better for the PJs.