My divorced papa in his 50s has recently been getting much more emotionally close, and seems to be genuinely falling for me. Does a single papa really think he’s dating a girl 20 years younger than him…?
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What I realized this time was how obvious the difference was in the intensity of our feelings, our expectations, and our level of enthusiasm. He also sent me messages like, “I’d like us to have a constructive conversation about how we could build an even better relationship and stronger trust by taking things slowly and…”
Do all of you, both men and women, communicate that frequently?
I’m the type who prefers to decide when we’ll meet next and not really keep in touch until then, so our values are different, and I’m starting to feel a little tired of it.
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Based on that message alone, I don’t think you can say he’s genuinely falling for you yet. It also feels like he’s testing the waters to see how you’ll respond.
If you can get him more emotionally invested, he might become a generous (well-paying) papa (a male supporter). But if you don’t really want to stay in touch with him that much, you may not be a good match.
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Regardless of how often they message you, I think you should simply start replying a little less often—until it feels “just right.”
A perceptive man will notice. If he doesn’t, just tell him directly.
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That’s a typical move by a Carlos (a low-paying papa).
He’s just trying to lower the allowance—he’s aiming to get intimacy for free.
If he really wanted to get closer to a woman, there’d be no need for a discussion. He’d simply offer a much higher allowance.
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Judging from the messages alone, I wouldn’t say he’s genuinely in love.
Maybe he simply wants a relationship with some real feelings involved.
I also try not to message too often, but when we meet, I’d still like us to get along and enjoy each other’s company.
If you don’t like how frequently he contacts you, I think you should just tell him directly the next time you meet.
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Since I tailor it to each woman, the frequency of our messages varies from person to person. Some women message me on LINE almost every day, while others do so about once a week.
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