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Feb 18, 2022 20:33
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I think only a limited number of men actually tell you that you’re cute.
Once, when we had a huge argument and I was on my knees apologizing, he said that even though he was still angry, he was thinking, “She’s beautiful today too.”
Though he hardly ever says things like that…
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Some people will always say it, even if you do the same thing, while others simply won’t.
The one who always tells me how cute I am is a man 15 years younger than me. He’ll say things like, “Marikaaa, when are you going to go on a date with me?”—which is adorable in itself—so I indulge him with a date every now and then.
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I think the first step is figuring out what he considers “cute.”
Everyone has different ideas about what’s cute, after all.
You can pick up on his preferences through casual conversation and surprise him with something on your next date. Or gradually incorporate a little of what he likes into your makeup and fashion. You could also remember everything about how he dresses and behaves on dates.
And one more thing: a guy who doesn’t say “cute” probably won’t say it even when he sees the cutest girl. But instead of putting it into words, he’ll probably express “cute” with his whole body language.(^^)
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Some people say it depending on their personality, while others don’t. I guess if you’re around someone who does, they’ll say it to you all the time.
If it were me, Fuu, I’d tell you every time… from the moment we met until we said goodbye.
Apparently, these days even saying “cute” at work is considered sexual harassment, so I only say it during papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and to my dog.
The other day, I told my niece, “You’ve gotten cuter,” and she scolded me, saying it was creepy.
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When I hear women say they like foreign men, they often say:
“Japanese men don’t compliment me very often, but foreign men compliment me every time we meet.”
I’m sure there are Japanese men who are like that too, but I think it largely depends on their personality.
Rather than worrying about what you should do, I think you should look for someone who will treat you that way.
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I’m sorry if this doesn’t really answer your question, but don’t you find men who constantly call you “cute, cute” a little suspicious?
It gives me the impression that they have such a low bar for what they consider “cute” that they say it to all kinds of women.
Are men like that really attractive…?
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I think you should meet men who enjoy telling you that you’re cute.
I’ve met someone ten times and only said it once—or maybe not even once.